Are you running away from twin flame marriage? – Top 3 Solution

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Twin Flame Marriage

In this video, we are going to talk about twin flame marriage and we try to answer this question that Can twin flames get married? OR Should twin flames get married? OR Are you running away from twin flame marriage?

There can be multiple cases here.

The first case is that both twin flames are single.

The second is when one of the twin flames from a pair is married to another partner and the other is single.

The third case is when both twin flames are married to other partners.

Another case can be that both twin flames are married to each other but currently, they are in the separation phase.

Before we explain each of these scenarios and talk about twin flame marriage, let us first understand the meaning of marriage.

What is marriage?

What is marriage

Marriage as we see around us in this 3D world is a legal contract between two people and it establishes rights and obligations between them.

Marriage in the traditional sense is an arrangement that puts conditions on two people and makes it difficult for them to separate.

It is a kind of assurance that your spouse will not leave you on whom you are mentally, physically, or emotionally dependent.

It gives a sense of security.

Some expectations from marriage are that:

  • your spouse will be loyal to you by not engaging in any sexual activity with any other person,
  • they are expected to provide you with mental, physical, emotional, or financial support, etc.

Does 3D twin flame marriage mean anything for twin flames?

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As said in our previous videos, twin flames get separated, so that they can work on themself and can clear all hurts, fears, and traumas that exist in their subconscious and which affect personality and behavior.

Once you are able to clear all these fears, you reach a state where you don’t feel the need to bind yourself in another contract like marriage.

And now, if twin flame marriage happens, it will be a marriage of two free souls, who do not bind each other due to their own fears or insecurities.

To know more about twin flame separation, see the below-mentioned post

Is twin flame marriage wise decision?

Twin flame marriage depends on case to case basis.

1 Both Twin flames are single

The first case is when both twin flames in a pair are single.

This is an ideal scenario where twin flame marriage makes the most sense.

Of course, twin flame marriage will only happen once they have cleared all their blockages.

Twin flame marriage will be very beneficial for them and for the rest of the people around them.

When both these awakened souls have a child, then that child will also be a highly awakened soul which will further help in raising the vibration of the planet.

So, They can aim for twin flame marriage by asking the Divine to do what is for the highest good of both of them.

2 One of the twin flames is married to another partner

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The second case is when one of the twin flames is single and the other is married.

Divine chooses to keep one of them single, so that once the married twin flame gets free from their marriage commitment, then both twin flames can marry on this earthly plane.

The married twin flame can come out of his marriage commitments, by doing their inner work.

He can then help transform his karmic partner as well, and further he might help/guide his karmic partner to unite with their twin flame.

In short, if both twin flames follow divine guidance obtained during inner work and follow it, then things will turn out for the highest good of all.

3 Both twin flames are married to other partners


The third case is when both twin flames already are married to other partners.

We want to say here that Don’t lose hope if you and your twin flame are both married to other partners.

Inner work will help you to get clarity and to find the right way to deal with this situation.

By doing inner work and by following divine guidance, it is possible to get out of marriage commitments with current partners.

And once both of you are free then you can choose what you want to do next.

You can see the following video about how Tinku and Tina were able to get out of commitment with their current relations for the highest good of all involved.

What happens to kids that twin flame has with other partners?

If you or your twin flame have kids with existing partners, these factors might need to be considered when you plan to marry your twin flame.

Remember that it will take some time, let’s say 2 years before you reach a higher vibration state by doing inner work.

Sooner or later your twin flame will also start inner work and it will take them some time, let’s say 2 years before they reach a stable state as well.

By that time, your kids will not be the same as they are now. They will be older and will have a different life.

You can not get all the answers right now about how this will happen.

The only option is to take the next step in your inner work and see how things unfold.

If your marriage with your twin flame is as per the Divine’s will, then it will definitely happen.

You will find a way, things will be sorted.

Are you running away from twin flame marriage?

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It has come to our knowledge that when some twin flames reach a higher state by doing inner work, they don’t feel the need to get married to their twin flame.

When you do your inner work, you reach a stage where marriage is not really necessary for either one of you.

Then some twin flames stop doing inner work and keep themself busy with other non-spiritual pursuits.

Their thinking is that they don’t need their twin flame anymore.

Note that most of the time, there is an unresolved hurt behind such cases.

All we have to say is that your twin flame is the one who became a catalyst and pushed you in direction of inner work.

If you have reached a stable state then it is your part to help in his awakening as well, by following the divine guidance.

It’s perfectly alright if you don’t want to get married, but it’s not alright if you are not seeking divine guidance and have stopped following any guidance that you have received or are currently receiving.

You are an instrument of God and you are here to full fill divine mission.

So it’s not a good sign if you are running away from twin flame marriage by getting yourself busy and by not following divine guidance.

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1111 portal – Top Myths & Hidden Meaning

1111 portal


Does the 1111 portal mean the twin flame reunion is near OR what is the meaning of the 1111 portal?

Let’s take the example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this mystery of 1111.

Does the 1111 portal mean a twin flame reunion is near?

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When Tinku was going through a separation from his twin flame, he used to read about these special dates like the 1111 portal, 1212 portal, 1010 portal, 88 lions gate, etc. and he used to think that now as this special date has arrived, so his reunion is very near.

After witnessing these special dates for a couple of years, Tinku realized that days like the 1111 portal are just an indication to keep on moving ahead even if there are some tough decisions to be made.

He used to check his progress on these special dates, from the day he started his journey.

It’s obvious that when each year the 1111 portal appears, you have moved one more year in your inner work journey and thus you are moving ahead towards reunion, but it does not mean that union is going to happen tomorrow or next week or next month, or next year.

Myths about the 1111 portal

If you search YouTube for 1111 then you will see many videos with these titles like

  • 1111 Portal for Manifestation, every desire will be fulfilled for love, money, success, etc.
  • 1111 portal technique law of attraction, you will get so much that you will not be able to handle
  • 1111 portal, good news for twin flames, your union will happen.
  • 1111 portal, expect miracles
  • 1111 portal, powerful manifestation

Understand that these video titles are written to grab your attention.

Think about this: are you able to clear an exam by preparing for the whole year, or can you clear it just by studying on the last day of the exam?

How can everything get resolved on this special day if you have not done your inner work?

How can days like the 1111 portal have the same meaning for everyone?

And why would you do inner work, if the reunion or manifestation is so simple?


No doubt these days carry special energy, but still, the meaning of days like the 1111 portal, depends on where you are in your inner work journey.

Instead of doing something special on days like the 1111 portal, it’s more critical to keep on doing your daily inner work.

Examples of seeing 1111

Let’s take some more examples of how Tinku witnessed 1111.

  • When Tinku was starting a spiritual center he saw 1111
  • When Tinku was struggling with the flow of clients to sustain this spiritual center, then again he saw 1111.
  • When Tinku was closing this spiritual center due to a shortage of clients, he again saw 1111.
  • When Tinku was thinking about joining a new job that was not related to spiritual healing, he saw 1111.
  • After a month in this job when he was thinking to quit that job, then he saw 1111.
  • He wanted to learn and do mass healing, he saw 1111.
  • He was thinking about meeting his twin flame after separation of a couple of years and he saw 1111.

This list is endless of the cases when Tinku witnessed 1111.

In all these cases, the common meaning of 1111 was an indication for Tinku to keep on moving ahead.

The hidden meaning of 1111

Let’s understand what was hidden meaning of 1111 was in all the cases discussed before.

Tinku had to start a spiritual center so that he can learn some finer points about healing modalities from his spiritual master, who was also a part of this spiritual center. Here 1111 indicated him to move ahead with this step of the opening of the spiritual center.

Seeing 1111, When they were not getting any clients meant that the business is going as intended by the universe and he should keep on moving ahead and choose the next wise option when the time comes.

Seeing 1111 when closing this spiritual center meant that the purpose of his spiritual center was complete and its time for him to move ahead.

Seeing 1111 when he was thinking about joining a job, indicted him to go ahead and join it. By doing that job, he understood that he can not get satisfaction from non-spiritual work. Further, he also learned that he was not able to focus on his spiritual teaching work and his inner work was also getting affected.

Seeing 1111 when he was quitting his job indicated him to move ahead from this job, as this job has served its purpose.

Seeing 1111 when he wanted to learn mass healing, gave him an indication to move ahead, as he is going to specialize in healing modalities.

When he was thinking about meeting his twin flame after separation of a couple of years and he saw 1111, it indicated that he can move ahead in calling his twin flame as the right time has come.

So the meaning of 1111 is situational, as shown in the above examples.

What is the importance of inner work?

So how inner work helps here?


There are many tough decisions that you have to take on this journey, in order to get into the flow of the universe.

First and foremost is to shed your fears and trust the universe.

These decisions become easier if you are doing your inner work.

And with each such decision, that is aligned with your higher self, you move ahead towards union with your twin flame.

So the 1111 portal does not mean that you are going to unite with your twin flame either today or tomorrow or in the next month or next year.

It means that if you keep on doing your inner work, the reunion is inevitable.

Bigger meaning of the 1111 portal

Depending on where you are on your inner work journey, the meaning of 1111 could be any one of the following.

  • the 1111 portal is asking you to release your old beliefs and move in direction of true life purpose.
  • It’s trying to remind you to rise beyond fear and trauma by healing it i.e.unresolved karma.
  • 1111 portal asks you to realize that you are the boss in your life. So can you take responsibility for your own path?
  • 1111 portal is pushing you to break out of this victim mentality that someone will save you.
  • 1111 portal also recommends that you may cut people out of your life, make major commitments to passion projects or undertake major life choices such as deciding to go for your dreams.
  • 1111 portal suggests that now is the time to be brave and to listen to your SOUL, not society or other people.

For a more detailed video explaining all these points, you can see the following video.



To summarize, the meaning of 1111 is situational.

Instead of doing something special on days like the 1111 portal, it’s more critical to keep on doing your daily inner work.

Always remember this quote, “slow and steady, wins the race.”

Or we can rephrase it as “By Slow and steady inner work, you can manifest and win your twin flame”.

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Twin Flame Reunion After Separation


Twin Flame Reunion After Separation

Many people who are facing separation with their twin flame or their twin flame has got married, generally ask this question that “will my twin flame contact me again?” i.e. Twin Flame Reunion After Separation.

We will try to answer this question in this video and stay tuned to know about a free tool to connect with the soul aspect of your twin flame.

Tinku & Tina

Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina who achieved Twin Flame Reunion After Separation.

If you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series whose link is given in cards above.

As mentioned in previous videos, Tinku and Tina got separated due to stress that was being caused by their existing partners.

Both of them wanted to meet each other, but the situation was not allowing for it.

Tinku wanted to know that will Tina contact him again or will he be able to see or talk to Tina again? i.e. when Twin Flame Reunion After Separation happens?

When all of this was going on, Tinku took a reading from Tarot card reader and he came to know that Tinku and Tina will reunite after 10 years..

This was further shocking for him.

Guidance from Spiritual Master

Tinku had already started his inner work, but the duration of 10 years for Twin Flame Reunion After Separation seemed too much to him.

Tinku told his master about the tarot reading.

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His master, who is a spiritual mystic, just smiled and told Tinku that any thing is possible with inner work.

Master asked him to continue on the path of inner work and with his change in vibration, Tinku will be able to attract Tina much faster.

Tinku kept on doing inner work and his awareness shifted into higher state.

While getting separated, Tinku thought that he will not be able to see Tina anymore.

But it turned out that as he kept on doing inner work and healing himself, Tina used to appear before him, accidently.

First encounter after separation

One day Tinku was going to withdraw some money from let’s say X bank.

On his way to X bank, there was another bank named Y bank. When he reached near Y bank, he felt like stopping there and go to Y bank.

So he stopped and went inside Y bank.


When he was entering Bank, he saw Tina inside bank who was just getting ready to leave the bank.

They both talked to each other like nothing unpleasant has happened between them before.

They spoke for a few minutes and then they went their own ways.

When Tina left, Tinku thought about his master’s word and realized that universe made him visit this Y bank, where as his original plan was to go to X bank.

Although it was a brief meeting but it made him realize that this separation period does not means a totally no contact period.

This realization felt like a big relief and he felt that his inner work is working and he can achieve Twin Flame Reunion After Separation much faster.

Second meeting

Tinku felt motivated and healed, with this development.

Universe showed him some higher energy clearing techniques, that can further speed up inner work process.

He started the practice of these tools regularly and on the 10th day of practicing these tools, he saw that Tina has joined same GYM as him.

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This was their second meeting and they met briefly.

Note here that Tina’s partner was also their at the gym, so Tinku kept her distance from Tina.

Tina hoped to see same old loving Tinku, but Tinku kept distance from her as their existing partner situation was not resolved yet.

Although Tinku wanted to talk to her, but he realized that its better to keep on doing inner work, instead of creating further stress cause of existing partners.

Tinku understood that his inner work and energy clearing is working as he can clearly see the results, but he also needs to do more inner work to get himself and Tina free from their existing partners and to achieve complete Twin Flame Reunion After Separation.

This meeting was a great realization and Tinku got motivated to try further higher inner work techniques and Energy clearing techniques.

Third Meeting

Tinku was doing healings for both himself and Tina.

Tina was shedding old energy very fast.

So, After couple of more months of inner work and higher energy clearing, Tina had a vision about their past birth life together.

She messaged Tinku on social media about the experience and Tinku received guidance to meet Tina and let her know about what is going on.

So they met at a café where Tinku told Tina about inner work and energy clearing, but he also told her that he will not come back to her until the existing partner issue is completely resolved on both sides.

Note here that Although Tinku wanted to get back with Tina, but Tinku knew that he have to do inner work to such a point that all external factors that are opposing them, are neutralized completely.

This news was devastating for Tina, but it also propelled her in journey to learn higher inner work.


She took a big step and went ahead to become a Yoga Teacher, which is also a form of inner work.

Divine’s plan needed that she becomes a Yoga Teacher and thus guide others to balance their life styles.

Other synchronicities

There were other synchronicities that were happening as Tinku was progressing in his inner work.

Universe was keeping them in touch by one way or another.

In some cases, someone would refer about Tina in front of Tinku and thus Tinku will get a chance to know that whether he has resolved all uneasiness or is there any uneasiness still left regarding Tina and her partner.


Sometimes Tinku will see Tina’s name on some advertisement board or in Television programs.

Sometimes Tinku will see a dream of Tina that will indicate that she is also rising higher in her inner work.

Sometimes her picture will popup in some social media post or a reference to her may popup somewhere.

One final shock

After doing inner work for couple of years, Tinku sought master spirits guidance to know the date and time of reunion.

And he came to know that it will take 4 more years.

This was another shock that he had already done inner work for couple of years and now, divine guidance is saying that it will still take 4 more years for Twin Flame Reunion After Separation.

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When he told this to his master, then his master recommended him to better focus on his higher purpose than to seek answer for reunion time.

The more Tinku was focusing on reunion day, the more he was sending this signal in universe that he is currently not with Tina, or he is missing Tina.

First Tinku have to reach a spiritual state where he can feel Tina always with him energetically.

This was his last test and he learned his lesson.

He completely removed his focus back from reunion date and instead focused on his higher purpose.

And the good news is that soon after he passed this test, universe started to increase their frequency of chance meetings.

Fourth Meeting

Tinku’s relation with his partner had changed from partners to friends.

Same happened with Tina and her partner that their relation changed from being partners to friends.


And one day Tinku accidently met Tina when she was walking alone on a road side.

It was a brief meeting and Tinku told her that he has started teaching inner work to any willing students.

Tina asked Tinku that how will his partner respond if Tina comes to learn inner work from Tinku?

Tinku had no answer to this question at that time.

He asked asked this same question from his partner and to his surprise his partner said that she don’t have any objection if Tinku is teaching inner work to Tina or to any one else.

Call with Tina

In couple of weeks that day came when Tinku got this guidance during meditation that he can call Tina today.

He was surprised that it came out of nowhere. He was a little nervous too.

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But he took the step and called Tina. As per Divine’s will, Tina came to meet Tinku with in 10 minutes of the call.

And then they spoke their heart out and it was a great healing day for both of them. We can say that this was the day when actual Twin Flame Reunion After Separation started.

With this new development, Tinku offered to teach inner work to Tina, as he knew that Tina had some inner work that needs to be done, before they can be in complete harmony and free from other attachments.

Tina was happy to see Tinku and learning inner work was her only option to see Tinku again.

Tina started learning inner work taught by Tinku and Slowly she raised her vibration to much higher level.

Harmonious Reunion

This is called harmonious reunion or Twin Flame Reunion After Separation, when Tina was also able to understand that the whole purpose of separation phase was to prepare both of them for higher teachings.

Now she takes responsibility for all painful or unpleasant events that happens in her life, instead of looking out for solution or support from others.

Obviously, Tinku is helping her in healing any triggers, because he has more experience in dealing with them.

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They practically learned about the pain that other twin flames are going through and they started to guide other twin flames in the process of reunion.

Many of our students have united in a similar way to their twin flames.

They are now helping their counterpart in inner work and soon these twin flame couples will be guiding other twin flames all across the planet.


So the summary is that although when separation process was happening, it seemed to Tinku and Tina that they might not meet again soon and thus they were feeling helpless.

But with proper guidance from spiritual master and with discipline and firm resolve, universe supported this twin flame couple in meeting many times by accident and finally they were able to get back to each other in harmony and thus achieve real Twin Flame Reunion After Separation.

So if you ask this question that “Will my twin flame contact me again?” then the answer is that it depends on your inner work.

But yes, sooner or later you will get connected to your twin flame in a way that either they will contact you or you will get guidance to contact them again.

You can stay in touch with soul of your Twin Flame by using following session.

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Top 1 Reason To Clear Past relationships

Past relationships


In this article we will understand the role of Past relationships in your Journey and the reason that why a “Third Party” is involved between you and your twin flame.

By the end of this article, you can get a free tool to clear energy of past relationships or past lovers.

What are past relationships?

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First, lets understand What are Past relationships or Past Lovers?

All those people with whom we had intense relations in this life or in any of previous life times can be known as Past relationships or past love relation or past Lovers.

These relations can be sexual or non-sexual as well.

Non-sexual intense relations are generally with our family members like mother, father, brother, sister, grand mother, grand father OR other close relatives or friends.

But, generally, the most intense relation in our life involve romance and sex.

Some of these Past relationships or past lovers are those people whom we dont even know, but those people are romantically attached to us, even without us knowing about it.

So, Here are few cases of Past relationships or past lovers:

  • First, in which Only you were attracted towards them without them knowing about it,
  • Second, in which only they were attracted towards you without you knowing about it,
  • and Third, the case in which you both had attraction towards each other but you may or maybe not end up in a relation.

When we are mentally, physically or emotionally attracted to someone, we can call it a Love relation, even though it may or may not be romantic or sexual.

Does our past relationship exist across life times?

Across Lifetimes

Now, Let us consider our previous lifetimes.

In few regression session we came to know that some souls had up to 500 births.

So Suppose that you had about 500 births and in each birth you were involved in an average of two romantic relationships.

So in total you had about 1000 relations till now or we can say that you have about pending 1000 energetic connections that have not been released yet.

If we take into account the infatuations or crushes or one sided attractions then there can be an average of about 5 to 10 relationships in each birth, which totals up to 10,000 or more pending energetic connections.

These cords are energetic, so they dont end with our death and thus they are carried on with us in every birth.

So we are tiring to say that those people, towards whom you are attracted in this lifetime, may have been romantically involved with you in one way or another in your previous lifetimes.

How to recognize a past relationship?


Whenever they will come in your life, you will feel a sense of belongingness or some sort of attraction towards them.

You will feel like you have some strong magnetic bond with them i.e. you may like looking at them or
your body react positively in their presence.

You feel like you should live around them or they should live around you.

You will have these sorts of pleasant feelings so that you can move into a relationship with them to learn lessons.

So, Any person to whom you are feeling any kind of attraction, can be known as Past relationships or past lovers .

These are the people to whom we get attracted automatically.

Their presence around us gets our attention in a positive way.

Why past relationship appear in present life?

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There can be multiple reasons.

  • You might have ever wished to be in relation with someone in this or any previous lifetime OR
  • Someone might have wished to be with you in this or any previous lifetime

Then these wish is being fulfilled now.

Another reason behind this attraction is that these souls have some contracts to be completed with you or have some lessons to teach you.

So first there will be attraction involved, then both souls will learn from each other during the relation.

Energetic match

These people are those, whose energies are a match to your energy.

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In our previous video we explained the difference between Twin Flames, Twin Rays and Soulmates.

Lets see this image of leaves of tree.

Each leaf on this tree represents a complete soul i.e. you and your twin’s combined soul.

If we split a leaf in two half, then one half will be you and other half will be your twin flame.

The leaves that are closest to your leaf represents Twin Rays.

Means that the closest souls to you after your twin flame are called Twin Rays.

In this image, the leaves that are farther away, represents Soulmates.

Soul Mates are All others souls who come into your life to help you to learn lessons.

Your energy matches with your Twin Flame, your Twin Rays and all other Soulmates.

Due to this energetic match you feel attracted to some people and not all people around you.

For Eg:- Lets say that there are One Lakh Boys or One Lakh Girls in your city.

This doesn’t mean you are attracted towards all of them.

Maybe you are attracted to only 100 or 400 out of these One Lakh Boys.

These are the ones with whom you had any past connection or you had ever wished to be with them or they wished to be you, which resulted in an energetic connection between you and them.

Now in this present lifetime, all these people will come one by one.

Once you are finished your lessons with one, other one will come and then when you have finished with them then Next one will come and so on.

With this speed, If you finish two or three relations in this lifetime and then next past lover will meet you in next lifetime, so that you can finish your pending cords and learn lessons with them.

What is significance of past relationships?


So What is significance of Past relationships or past lovers in Twin Flame Journey?

When your Twin Flame come into your life and after initial bubble love phase beings the separation phase or as we call it the preparation phase.

To move further into Union with Harmony, it is necessary to clear all the Past relationships or past lovers energetic connections i.e. if you have pending lessons or desires with any of Past relationships or past lovers, then they need to be completed.

You cannot reach into Harmonious union with your twin till you or your twin have open relations with others.

How to deal with past relationships?

So now you understand that you had some past lovers.

Similar is the case for your Twin flame. He/she must be having Past relationships or past lovers too.

Till the time the energy of Past relationships or past lovers is intermingled with you or your twin flame’s energy, you and your Twin flame cannot be in harmonious union, as there is outside energy involved.

This outside energy is generally referred to as third party situation.

Mixing of energy with outsiders means you or your twin are either physically, mentally or emotionally dependent on them.

Now there are two ways to deal with these Past relationships or past lovers who appears from time to time in you or your twin flame’s life.

A longer way is to start a relation with them i.e. to live with them for sometime and when all Karmas associated with them gets cleared then you get free from them.

A shorter way is that you can clear their energy from you.

What happens after clearing past relationships?

So lets say you clear your Past relationships or past lovers connections today.

In case your twin flame is married or they have a girlfriend or you are married or you are in a relationship, then clearing Past relationships or past lovers connection doesn’t mean that all these relations will end up instantly.

What will happen now is equation of your present relations will start to change.

Its like now relation with your partner will become like Friends and same will happen with your Twin flame regarding his Past relationships or past lovers.

This doesn’t mean you did healing today and everything will change today.

The level of healing depends on your spiritual growth.

If you are on beginning level then only those Past relationships or past lovers, who match your current energy frequency till today, will get cleared.

How inner work program helps?

We teach some kriyas to our students in Basic Inner Work Program.

By practicing these, your spiritual and energetic system will grow and open up and thus more deeper Past relationships or past lovers will come to surface i.e. new people will start to appear in your life as you are growing spiritually. E.g.

  • Some old romantic friend or lover will appear.
  • Or someone totally new person appear in your life, whom you feel extremely attracted to.

Now you have choice whether you clear this connection or to get involved in a romantic relation with them.

If you clear these Past relationships or past lovers then you move ahead closer to union with your twin flame.

If you choose to get into a relationship with any of these past lovers then it will delay your harmony & union with your twin flame.

How sexual energy exchange effect us?

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All those people in this or past life with which you had sexual connections, have a very deep level of energy exchange with you.

To understand this, Lets say that one of your Past relationships or past lovers had apples and you had oranges.

When you both get sexually involved with each other then some of these apples and oranges gets exchanged with each other.

This exchange made between you two will stay with you across the lifetimes.

So if you had 1000 partners till this now in all your lifetimes then You are carrying energetic residue of all of them.

Why third party is involved between twin flames?

So, Why a “Third Party” is involved between you and your twin flame?

If your twin flame is with some partner or you are with some partner, which is popularly known as “third party” then it means that there is some pending energetic connection that needs to be cleared by you or your twin flame.

You can clear your twin’s Past relationships or past lovers, if their soul is ready to do so.

When this pending energetic connection is cleared completely, then this “third party” situation will also resolve for highest good of all.

How to clear past relationships?

As said earlier, We teach some kriyas to our students in Basic Inner Work Program.

By practicing these, your spiritual and energetic system grows and opens up and thus more deeper Past relationships or past lovers start to come to surface.

In addition to these kriya, we teach some higher energy clearing tools. These tools helps to clear the energy of Past relationships or past lovers for both you and your twin flame.

Please note that, It takes a student around 5 months of practice of these kriyas, before we can teach these higher energy clearing tools to them.

In our experience, people are not able to handle these tools if they have not practiced the kriyas enough.

So we can say that lots of inner work practice needs to be done.

In twin flame journey, it is very important to clear Past relationships or past lovers energy.

If you want to learn these kriyas and higher energy clearing techniques then you can join our Basic Inner Work Program.

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If you are unable to join our inner work program for any reasons at this time then you can still clear some of these Past relationships or past lovers.

You can use the free healing session that we created to clear the surface level energy of Past relationships or past lovers. To get free tools, please subscribe below.

Whenever someone attractive person appears into your life or you feel that someone is attracted to you then you can use this session to clear them.

As a general rule, Keep on using this session periodically, like may be once in a month or whenever you feel like.


So if we Summarize this article then,

Past relationships or past lovers are all those souls with whom we had intense relation in this life or in some previous lifetime.

These are the people to whom we get attracted automatically.

Their presence around us gets our attention in a positive way.

If these people comes in your life then there are two ways to deal with them.

  • One is that you can get involved in relation with them which is quite a long process.
  • Second is to clear their energy from you and your twin flame.

For deeper and faster clearing, you can join our Basic Inner Work Program which involve practicing some higher kriyas to widely open your energetic system so that deep Past relationships or past lovers comes on surface faster and thus you can clear them with higher energy clearing techniques for both you and your twin flame.

As harmonious union is not possible till energies of these Past relationships or past lovers is involved between you and your twin flame, so clearing these energies becomes very important, so that you can move forward into harmonious Union with your Twin.

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Having multiple partners? | Top 2 eye-opening examples

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In this article, we will talk about what happens when we are having multiple partners.

By the end of this article you will know a free tool that can clear physical attraction toward others.

Why we feel attracted to someone?

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In our video on past lovers, we mentioned that Past lovers are all those souls with whom we had intense relation, most probably sexual relation, in this life or in some previous lifetime.

These are the people to whom we get attracted automatically. Their presence around us gets our attention in a positive way.

We may feel physical attraction for such a person whenever they appear in your life.

What is need of having multiple partners?

Let’s understand this with some examples from a holy book named “Sripada srivallabha charitramrutam“.

A living being takes many births in the process of evolution. It may be born as a female in some births, and as a male in some other births. It may also be born as an animal or a bird instead of a human.

Our First case is that, “If a man have physical relation with four or five females in a lifetime, then he will be born as a female in the next birth.

If the physical desires and urges of those four or five females are not destroyed, they will take birth as males and have physical indulgence with that female.”

Another case is of Mandodari from Ramayana, who was born as a male in one of her past births.

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“As a male in that life, he had three wives. First one was fickle-minded wife, second was a cruel wife and third was a gentle-natured wife.

During Ramayana, Mandodari was born as female and The fickle-minded wife was born as a monkey under the name Vali, The cruel wife took birth as Ravana and the gentle-natured wife was born as Vibhishana.

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First, Mandodari became a wife to Vali and gave birth to Angada.

Afterwards, she became the wife of Ravana.

After the death of Ravana, she became the royal wife of Vibhishana.

She was just exhausting her previous karmas with these three souls.

The prana at different stages when she was the wife of Vali, of Ravana and of Vibhishana were different and varied. Therefore, Mandodari is also a Maha pativrata.”

Note here that Mandodari did not had different husband in same time period, instead she had these partners one after another.

Having multiple partners at same time

So does it mean that is it ok when we are having multiple partners?

The answer is not a simple yes or no.

Physical union is a process in which lots of energy is exchanged between both partners.

Lets take a case where a person named Mr. A is having physical relation with Miss B, Miss C & Miss D.

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He is having physical relation with these partners at different times i.e. all these partners don’t know each others.

But, as Mr. A is having multiple physical partner, this will result in the energy of all these people getting intermingled with each other.

These people will be able to sense energy of each other, without knowing that where this energy is coming from. When energy of other people gets mixed with our energy, it creates confusion in our mind.

Also if these partners somehow come to know about each other, then obviously they will feel cheated.

So its not a very good idea to have multiple physical partner at same time.

But if you have been at physical distance from your current partner for around 1.5 month to 3 month, then their energy decrease considerably in you and thus you will share very less of these energies between these partners.

If you know the higher energy clearing techniques as we teach in our inner work program, then it further clears energies of all past lovers from your energetic system.

What to do if you feel attracted to someone?

Then what should be done if you are attracted to someone other than your current partner.

First of all let us make clear that we are neither promoting physical relation outside your current relationship, nor are we against it.

We are only trying to educate about the optimal way to deal with this attraction.

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Physical desire is the most powerful desire in this universe.

So in case you are having this attraction for someone outside your committed relationship then you can try to surrender this attraction and desire to divine, by saying a prayer similar to “O, Lord, I surrender this energy of attraction to you, please clear it.”

This prayer might clear this energy of attraction and you may feel relieved.

If this attraction comes again then you can repeat the same prayer each time.

You can also learn advanced techniques in our inner work program that help you channel your energy.

But in case the attraction is becoming unbearable then its up to you to decide how to proceed next.

Is it ok to have sex with twin flame?

So lets come to the most asked question that is it ok if you get physical with your twin flame?

Once again, The answer is not a simple yes or no. It depends from case to case.

Can You Fall In Love With Someone Youre Not Physically Attracted To

If you or your twin flame have active physical partners then its not a very good idea to get physically involved with your twin flame as it will result in exchange of energy and it will also hurt feelings of all people involved.

Its better to sort your partner commitment with the help of inner work first.

If both you and your twin flame are not in active physical relation with any partners then it is an ideal situation.

Still its better to do inner work to clear energy of all past lovers from both of you, across lifetimes.

Last but not the least, If you had already been physically involved with your twin flame or the desire to get physically close to your twin flame is unbearable, then all we can say is that its better to not take any guilt, and instead its time to start doing inner work to sort out your relationship commitments with any existing partners.

Whatever may be the case, Inner work is still necessary to sort everything out for highest good of all.


So, in short, having multiple partners is not a very optimal way energetically, but if you already are having multiple partners then its time to get started on the path of inner work to get more clarity for your ongoing life.

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What to do if my twin flame is married? – 100% Authentic Story

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What to do if my twin flame is married?

Many twin flames who approach us have same question that What to do if my twin flame is married?

This is because they have met their counterpart in this life when either one of them is already married or both of them are already married to other partners.

Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this third party situation.

If you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series below.

When twin flames meet?

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Tinku was around 35 and was well settled both financially, emotionally and family wise, but still he used to feel a kind of emptiness in his life.

He used to feel that he needs a spiritual friend who can help him in growing.

Tina was around 40. She had seen some broken relationships in the form of abandonment, betrayal and other kind of trauma.

Both of them had previous partners and also had kids with these partners.

Note that even before Tinku and Tina had met each other, both of them had started to feel that their partners are drifting away emotionally from them and it created an emotional vacuum for both Tinku and Tina.

So when Tinku and Tina met in this life time, they immediately felt at home.

Tinku and Tina started to grow closer due to the irresistible pull between them plus it was also filling the emotional vacuum that has been created by the distancing of their partners.

Initially it looked like a nice friendship and as time passed, they became more and more closer to each other.

Both of them started to loose interest in their current partners, and due to this they also started to feel guilty as they felt that they are cheating with their partners.

Why twin flames face separation?

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Tinku and Tina had a strong bond due to which their existing partners started to feel insecure.

So these partners started to oppose the relation between Tinku & Tina.

As this opposition increased, it became more stressful for Tinku & Tina and everyone else involved in this situation.

Tinku and Tina were not ready to leave each other, but by each passing day, the stress was increasing.

Inner guilt and also opposition from others, plus society conditioning was creating more and more stress & restlessness.

And so, one day when stress crossed tolerable limits, they were forced to get separate from each other.

It was a situation of helplessness.

When you remember that “my twin flame is married”, you my face this helplessness.

Why one Twin Flame have to do all work?

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In the last few days before getting separated, a higher master soul appeared during a regression session of Tina.

Tinku asked this question to master soul that Why Tinku and Tina had met so late in life and how this relationship will survive the opposition of society?

To this, Master soul replied that “You will find a Way Tinku and Things will be sorted.”.

Universe was giving signs to Tinku that his relation with Tina is special.

So once Tinku and Tina got separated, Tinku started to search for answers.

Fortunately, he had opportunity to come in contact with a spiritual master, and with his guidance, Tinku accepted and embraced this separation and started on the path of inner work.

Twin flame was a totally new concept for Tinku.

But with guidance from his Spiritual Master and Universe, he understood that for now the inner work is to be only done by him, until he is able to trigger the awakening of Tina through Inner work and energy work.

Tinku understood that Tina is acting under the effect of her ancestral karma and society conditioning and he can clear these karmas and conditioning, just by working on himself.

He understood that with his inner work, Tina will follow him shortly.

Note here that even if you think “Oh! my twin flame is married”, still one person from a twin flame pair can do inner work and help their twin flame to awaken.

Can I Forget My Twin Flame? 

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Tinku asked him self that can he forget Tina?

He knew that he can’t forget Tina, so instead of waiting, its better to continue on the path of inner work to overcome the pain and confusion that has been triggered by this situation.

He understood that it is just a test, a preparation phase for a cosmic marriage with his twin flame and inner work will heal this pain and will give him peace and clarity and he can manifest harmony with Tina.

He understood that with inner work, every thing is possible even if he was constantly thinking about question that “my twin flame is married”.

So its better to focus on his inner work.

How do you know if someone is your twin flame or soulmate?


During separation, Tinku also faced this confusion that whether Tina is his Twin Flame or not.

Although he was seeing most of the signs that were described as Twin Flame Signs like special connection, having same values, connection at all levels, time stopped when near twin flame, seeing her name everywhere, etc.

As discussed in this video, he was also getting guidance from master spirits to find a way and sort out everything,

Still he was confused as he had never experienced such phenomena before in his life and a thought that was bothering him was that “my twin flame is married”.

His master guided him that only way to get confirmation about this connection is to keep on doing inner work.

It is said that If you let your upset mind settle, then your course will also become clear.

How to Not Hurt My Partner for Twin Flame?

Tinku also had doubts that whether he is doing right with his current partner?

So he asked this question to his spiritual Master:

Tinku: “Master, is it right to seek my twin flame, while I already have a partner and my twin flame is married?”

Master: “Tinku, whether you seeks freedom from all this confusion by doing inner work or whether you seek your Twin flame?”

Tinku: “Master, my first priority is to get clarity and to get out of all this confusions.

I will do inner work to establish my self in state of being Yogasth.

Among my Twin flame and my partner, whoever is going to follow the journey of inner work to reach a state of being Yogasth, will stay with me.”

Master: “Tinku, keep on moving ahead on the path of inner work and keep this in mind that things will turn out for the highest good of all, which includes you, your partner, your kids and the partner and kids of your Twin Flame.”

Understanding Twin Flame Union

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If you are separated from our twin flame, then first priority during separation is to get back into contact with them even if this thought is there in your mind that “my twin flame is married”.

For Tinku and Tina, union did not mean marriage.

Union only meant that they are able to talk or interact with each other openly without any stress or fears and no one has objection to it.

It also means that Tinku was not targeting to leave his partner or kids for twin flame.

And know this that Tinku did lot of inner work and finally got clarity and further got into harmony with his twin flame in couple of years.

His consciousness expanded with his inner work and it effected positively everyone including his Twin flame and his current partner.

Tinku’s relation with his current partner changed to be like friends, where they give respect and freedom to each other to live as they please to.

Tinku’s partner moved ahead in her journey to unite with her Twin flame and Tinku is helping her in getting ahead in this journey.

Tina’s partner also changed completely and he moved out of her life to pursue his soul mission and to clear other pending karmas.

Tina is helping him clear these karmas by providing him guidance, assistance and healing.

And now Tinku and Tina can both meet openly without any fears or stress and they are also guiding other twin flame couples to move ahead in their journey to harmony.

What is Twin Flame inner work?

There are many types of inner work, but if you are targeting twin flame journey, then your inner work should be specific to this journey.

Its good if you are already doing any kind of inner work.

But if you want to accelerate your journey of harmony with your twin flame, then you can see details of our online twin flame inner work program, which is specific to twin flame journey.

As for tooth problem, you go to a Dentist & for skin problem, you go to a skin specialist, similarly for twin flame journey, its better to do a inner work that is specifically designed for twin flame journey.

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How law of reverse effect works in love? – 100% Accurate

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Why should we understand Law of Reverse effect?

A natural law of reverse effect exists in the energetic universe.

The law of reverse effect is some hard energy to change. It’s as automatic as gravity.

Understanding how reverse effect works in our psyche can help us understand our own issues that are really getting in the way of achieving our goal of reuniting with our twin flame.

In general, the law of reverse effect also leads to all our negative interactions with others.

Why its hard to let go twin flame?

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1 Let’s say that you want to work on yourself and not to think about your twin flame. How easy is it to follow?

For most of us, it’s only a matter of time before we give in and try to connect with them by calling or messaging them or seeing their FB or Instagram profile. 

And this time we even spend more time on them than we were doing, before we decided to stay away from them.

It becomes too hard to hold out against this craving to connect with them.

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2 It’s a similar scenario with trying to stop smoking. What happens when a smoker tries to quit smoking?

The struggle gets bigger; cravings become unbearable.

Addiction is strong energy in motion. Try to stop its motion and it will boomerang back at you with the full power of its forward motion and that too in reverse.

This is why it’s so hard to stop any addiction.

And know that the one human being is biggest drug to other human being.

And we are talking about your twin flame, who is the most lovable person for you in the whole world.  

What is Law of Reverse effect?

Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand Law of Reverse effect.

IF you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series, whose link is in cards above.

Tinku and Tina had to stay away from each other due to third party situation.

Although they were physically separated and had no direct means of communication, but Tinku was still energetically connected with Tina.

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He was watching her online profiles on social media, like Facebook, Instagram and was also posting some posts that were meant for Tina on his what’s app status or as Facebook, Instagram posts.

These posts were conveying a message that he still loves and cares for Tina.

His posts were creating lots of emotional turmoil in Tina as well. This is called Law of reverse effect, which means that the more Tinku was consciously trying to show his love to Tina, the more difficult it was becoming for them to reunite.

To summarize law of reverse effect briefly, it means that the harder one consciously tries to do something, the more difficult it is to succeed.

How do we get past the law of reverse effect?

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So How Tinku overcame the law of reverse effect?

When all of this was going on, Tinku took a reading from Tarot card reader and he came to know that Tinku and Tina will reunite after 10 years.

This was a shock for Tinku, who was hoping to reunite in couple of months.

His spiritual master had already educated him that if Tinku is able to let go Tina in 3d Physical world and focus his energy on his inner work, then it will lead to faster reunion.

Astrology, Tarot reading and other kind of psychic readings, read our current energy and then predict one of the possible futures.

On the other hand, inner work changes our energy and thus can change our future. 

With all this knowledge, Tinku’s intuition guided him to take a decision that he will not send his energy to Tina in the form of those social media posts or by any other means that will effect Tina in any way.

After this decision Tinku took another Tarot card reading in couple of days and this time Tarot card reader could not get any date for reunion.  

Tinku understood from this event that by making a small change in his behavior and energy, he was able to change the outcome of tarot reading and thus he can also change his future.

So in a way, Tinku was able to understand the Law of reverse effect and was also able to get past it.

How to not think about twin flame?

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We know that its not easy to stop thinking about your twin flame.

Tinku used his energy to learn inner work and spent his energy in doing his practice regularly.

Know that it takes at least 21 days to replace a habit and it takes around 3 months to imbibe new habit in your being.

So Tinku continued his practice and during that time, some “stuff” came up that pushed him towards contacting his twin flame. He moved through this resistance.

Just trying harder to avoid twin flame without inner work will not help.

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Tinku stayed away from twin flame by transmuting his energy towards inner work and learning higher spiritual sciences.

There will always be resistance when you start to do something that you were not doing earlier.

However, another law of the physical universe shows us that once we get started and are in motion , then there are higher chances that we stay in that motion.

So Once Tinku put inner work his priority, the Universe helped him to stay in motion.

The real problem is when we don’t take the first step.

Remember that taking first step is like winning half of the battle.

How to handle twin flame Journey?

Step 1 : Awareness and acceptance

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Awareness and acceptance are the first key.

Inner work done by Tinku and guidance from his spiritual master, gave him awareness to accept his current challenge.

Certainly, understanding the Law of reverse effect in the first place helped him to avoid struggle and frustration.

When Tinku got prepared to take on Twin Flame inner work for reunion, it was something new for him.


He accepted it with all its challenges and this acceptance made this journey much easier for him to handle.

His teacher told him that many times he will fall during healing process, but he healed it and got back up.

Expecting a trigger and handling it is easier, than facing a trigger when you are totally unprepared for it.

He took two steps forward happily by healing himself and when the one-step-back occurred in form of worse trigger, he accepted it as the way things are and kept on moving ahead.

Step 2 : Do you really want to unite with twin flame?

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Another key is that Tinku made sure that he really want to unite with Tina, despite the resistance from their previous partners.

Once Tina came in his life, there was no going back.

He understood that the attachments he have with his partner, children and other family members are just an illusion, which are stopping him in moving ahead towards harmony and reunion with his twin.

His desire was very strong and this desire helped him to cut through the resistance that his attachments were creating for him.

How much desire do you feel when you think about having a great life with your twin flame?

If you don’t want to do something then you may avoid it and put it off forever.

Tinku really wanted a certain outcome and the Universe then honored his intention and supported him because universe also wanted that Tinku and all twin flames should get out of the illusion and move ahead on their Divine purpose with their twin flames.

So Making a firm decision to reunite with his twin flame, helped him to move ahead.

Just the act of choosing to have your twin flame in life will puts you in forward motion.

The stronger the decision, the more the Universe supports you and the less you will experience that backlash. Conversely, the less certain you are, the greater the resistance will be.

How inner work effect your twin flame?

Tinku and Tina, both were already suffering because of their attachments to others. Or we can also say that they were addicted to the presence of other humans in their lives.

When a smoker, chronic overeater or alcoholic finally comes to the point of certainty where he knows deep inside, irrevocably, that death will be the end product of this addiction, then he or she can change much easier.

Similarly, as Tinku stopped sending energy of desperation to Tina and instead trained and raised himself to be a Twin flame Coach, then Tina finally came to a point of certainty where she knew deep inside, irrevocably, that separation and disharmony in this relationship will be the end product of her attachment to others.

That was the moment that she decided to change.

When she took such a deep decision that it affected her soul, she invoked a state of grace.

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A higher law took over and suddenly she was able to walk away from a life of attachments and then she never looked back.

Many of us need the help of a Higher Power to do this.

For a select few, it can happen from the realization and resulting decision alone.

For less extreme cases like Tinku, his planning to do inner work in a systematic way, like we teach to our students, and then sticking to that inner work, was able to get him through the backlash of resistance easily.

The slow, steady, persistent approach of a strong intention helped hold Tinku on course and moved him through the resistance much better, instead of the scenario where he was trying to force into reunion.

And his non awakened counterpart Tina was also awakened by the grace from Higher powers when Tinku reached a certain state in his spiritual growth.

What is meaning of let go?


Tinku’s life was also getting disturbed when struggling with separation and was sending his energy to Tina. He was not able to let go Tina.

His spiritual master recommended to let go Tina for now and wait patiently.

Tinku asked that is it alright to let go and not doing anything for Tina.

To this, his master replied that practicing patience is also a spiritual practice.  

And masters did not recommend to do nothing, instead he recommended Tinku to keep on doing inner work and find the right way to unite with Tina.

When Tinku had let go Tina, he  automatically moved out of resistance and into the flow.

As Tinku’s peace was restored by staying away from Tina, he was able to concentrate more on his inner work and staying in higher vibration.

The more he stayed in higher vibration, the more faster he progressed on his inner work journey by learning and practicing new tools, and finally he was able to reduce the reunion time as predicted by Tarot card reading from 10 years to 2 years.

So, Last, but not least, knowing when to let go and when to hang on is a very valuable key.

Trying to Rigidly control is never the answer.

Letting go is not giving up or not doing anything or just sitting idle.

Letting go is an art, and a spiritual skill.

You just have to be smarter than the law of reverse effect.

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What is Inner Work? | Top 2 reasons | Love & Finance

What is Inner Work


What is Inner Work?

Is meditation known as inner work? We try to explain these popular questions “What is Inner Work?” and “who can do inner work?”.

What is the use of inner work?

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Before we answer What is Inner Work, let us first know the importance of inner work.

Inner work is an important part of getting into good love life or good financial shape or getting success in any field of your life.

Many people do the outer work to achieve their goals.

For example, people who want love might practice the Law of attraction OR people who need financial independence might try to develop career skills and find jobs.

But they often neglect their inner attitudes which also play a major role in their current life state.

For e.g. Lacking confidence, procrastinating, being clingy to your lover, and refusing to look at one’s finances out of fear are all inner, mental issues that lead to poor love life OR poor financial habits.

Shifting one’s attitude towards love life OR financial matters leads to better outcomes. And we can apply this same logic to other matters in our life too.

Inner work doesn’t just transform your own life, it transforms other people’s lives too.

For e.g. Inner work matters in work-life too. As a manager, your business performance depends heavily on your employees’ inner life. Their feelings and behaviours will affect how your business runs.

So building your team’s or employees’ inner work life with positive motivation, appreciation, and recognition can improve work performance. Consider this – 79% of people say that “lack of appreciation” is the reason for leaving an otherwise good workplace.

What is inner work?

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So what is inner work?

Inner work is shaping your emotions, beliefs, and attitudes to create a healthier and happier version of yourself.

It’s about adjusting and correcting your mindset so that it helps you better facilitate your goals, whether they are in your love life or in your career.

As the physical 3d world is a reflection of your inner world, so by doing inner work and changing your inner world, you can change your physical reality as well.

So inner work is a procedure that can help you to work on yourself or your inner being, to see the results that you desire in your physical reality.  

How to do inner work?


Now you have an idea that what is inner work, you may ask how to do inner work.

A YouTube video can not explain all the steps of inner work.

A live Teacher is required who can teach and monitor your progress and then can guide you accordingly.  

As each doctor have a different style of treating a patient, similarly each inner work teacher has their own way to teach inner work.

So Inner work can be done in different ways.

Who should do Inner Work?

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Understanding what is inner work is one thing and who should do inner work, is another thing.

Anyone who wants to achieve their goals and get success in their life mission should do inner work.

There are generally two ways to do any work. One is hard work and one is smart work.

For example, Let’s say someone gave you a task to deliver a letter to Rakesh in sector 65 Chandigarh. 

One approach can be that you go to every house in sector 65 Chandigarh and find out whether Rakesh lives there or not. If he lives there then you can deliver the letter. This will be very hectic and time-consuming as you will have to search for many houses before delivering the letter.

Another approach can be that you can ask the sender of this letter to provide you with the exact address where this letter is to be delivered. Then you can use a tool like Google Maps to find the exact location of Rakesh and then deliver the letter in the shortest possible time, in the most efficient way. This is called smart work.

If you want to achieve your goals in the shortest possible time in the most efficient way then there is no other option than to do inner work.

With inner work, all the obstacles that are coming your way will slowly start to resolve themselves.

Whether you want harmony in your relationship or whether you want success in your job, everything can be changed by inner work.

When to join inner work? OR When to start doing inner work?


So when to start doing inner work?

It’s very Human to postpone things to the last moment.

For example, many people who are not regular in doing exercise will join a gym or health club, when the date of their marriage comes close. They want to look fit to their partner and others on this special occasion and thus they join a health club maybe 3 months before the marriage date, thinking that they will get fit by the time the ceremony of marriage will happen. 

Unfortunately, it does not work this way. Being physically fit is a lifestyle or we can say that it is a way of living. You can not go to the gym a few months before a special occasion and then expect to be fit in a short time. It takes time to understand the inner details of a healthy lifestyle and to apply those details to your own life.

Similarly, human tends to postpone inner work to the last moment.

Many people approach us for inner work only when they are emotionally in distress.

They might be getting divorced/separated or their twin flame is getting married OR the stress of this relationship has increased beyond their tolerance.

We want to highlight that inner work will not magically solve all your problems overnight. It is a slow process that teaches you the steps to become immune to the ups and downs of life, especially for the twin flame journey.

It’s better to start inner work as soon as possible so that you are prepared to handle the challenges of your life in a graceful manner.

How much inner work is to be done?

Do some people ask How much inner work you have to do before your twin will come back to you?

This question is similar to another question that generally people ask when they join a health club.

On joining a health club, people ask how much time it will take to lose weight or how much time it will take to build muscles.

The answer to this question depends on how fast you can learn and apply the concepts that your health coach teaches.

It depends on your dedication and not your desperation.

It depends on your consistent effort and not just your wishful thinking. 

It depends that how much you are willing to change your habits of eating less healthy food and replacing it with a strict diet and exercise schedule.

Similarly, the answer to the question that how much inner work you have to do, is dependent upon

  • How much priority do you give to inner work, over your other commitments?
  • How much are you willing to follow the guidance that you receive from your angels, no matter how difficult the decision may be?
  • How much you are willing to change your habits and nonoptimal behavior patterns?
  • How much you are going to give yourself priority over others including your kids?
  • and many more such questions…

We hear these concerns from people who approach us that

  • the inner work class timing does not suit them, or
  • they have families to look after, so they can not get time for inner work or
  • they are too busy in their work routine or
  • they are not able to do anything consistently
  • and so on…

Overall, the answer to this question depends on how much your soul has evolved by doing inner work till now.

You have to first understand the journey of evolution of a soul and use that knowledge to evolve your own soul.

Is Meditation Inner Work? 


When people think about “What is Inner Work”, then some people ask that “Is Meditation inner work?” or “is reiki healing inner work?” or “Is becoming a tarot card reader enough for inner work?”.

Meditation is a very misunderstood word and it is often used very vaguely.

Many people who approach us are doing meditation for many years and some are doing it for more than a decade, but still, they are struggling with their twin flame journey. So Inner work is not just Meditation.

Inner work is not just Reiki healing as many Reiki healers approach us who are struggling with their twin flame journey.

Inner work is not just Past Life Regression, as many Past life regression therapists also seek our help for their twin flame journey.

Inner work is not just becoming a tarot card reader or just applying the Law of attraction.

What are the components of Inner work?


So to answer the question that ‘What is Inner Work’, it’s better to know the components of Inner Work.

Inner work is a combination of tools and techniques from Higher meditative practices plus Reiki healings plus Past Life Regression plus Law of attraction plus Energy clearing plus Life Coaching and much more.

We would like to mention here that we learned and experimented with many tools and techniques before we became inner work teachers.

After a lot of experimentation and formulating strategies to deal with the ups and downs of the twin flame journey, we received this divine guidance to open this website, to share these tools and techniques with others. 

So if you are wondering what healing sciences you should learn to complete your understanding of inner work, then you can see our profiles to get an idea of what we had learned before we were able to guide you.

How to find an inner work teacher?

Jnana Param Ritu Om

After getting to know What is Inner Work, the next question arises How can you find an inner work teacher?

One approach can be to follow a person or teacher who had already achieved the result that you desire.

For example, let’s say you want to learn the steps of setting up a successful YouTube channel. For this, you can follow the teachings of someone who had already set up a YouTube channel successfully and they are also running this channel with massive followers.

Similarly, if you want peace and harmony with your twin flame, then you can follow a teacher who has already attained this peace and harmony with their twin flame. 

If the teachings of this teacher resonate with you then it will be an extra validation that this teacher is good for you.  

When you follow such a teacher and it brings positive changes in your life, it means the teacher is good for you.

Depending on your karmic baggage, the changes that happen in your life might be different from the changes that happen in the life of other people. 

We teach inner work and utilize the knowledge from ancient Yogic Wisdom and modern Energy clearing techniques in our inner work program.

You can see our YouTube videos and free healing sessions to see if our teachings resonate with you.  

Further, if you yourself want to become a twin flame coach like us then you can see our profiles and can aim to learn those holistic healing sciences that we have gone through and thus become a holistic healer or we can say a ‘Twin flames Coach’.

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What are male twin flame feelings? – Top 2 hidden Reasons for Running

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What are male twin flame feelings?

Male twin flame feelings are often distant and they will withdraw from their partner because he is struggling with their emotions. Let’s first understand how the twin flame journey starts.

How does the twin flame journey start?

If you haven’t met your twin flame yet, you have the feeling that there is something “missing” from your life. Or better yet, someone.

You notice that you keep looking around for that “other half of you.” This might all happen unconsciously.

Then comes a time when you meet your Twin Flame in the physical world or online and you know that they are an amazing person, and you feel a true connection with them.

You are not sure, but you know there is something special about this connection.

The meeting of both twins is the start of the twin flame journey and this is the most intense phase of this connection.

Why does separation happen?

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Then comes the difficult phase of separation, if not for all then at least for most of the twin flames.

Before taking birth twin flame couple planned their life circumstances in their relationship so that they can’t be together if they still have a lot of wounds when it comes to love and relationships.

So one or another thing happens and pulls you two apart so that you can heal those wounds and thus align with your higher self i.e. your soul.

Sometimes it happens that Twin flames can work through this together. It depends if it’s in their highest good to use closeness or separation as an ascension tool.

What is the meaning of being a chaser?

If you are in separation and are doing an effort to get your twin flame back instead of just finding peace and harmony for yourself, then it’s called chasing.

You probably have done a lot of things to get your Twin Flame back.

You may have tried to talk to them. You may have sent them messages.

You may have tried to let them see that you still love him.

And you have tried ALL the things that you would do with a “normal” relationship.

Why your twin flame is running?

So Why your twin flame is running?

male twin flame feelings are already jumbled up and When you are trying to talk them into getting back into your life, it’s pushing them away.

The harder you will push, the faster they will run away and maybe even block you.

They are running because your energy is pushing them.

Because the Feminine is in her PUSH energy, the Masculine HAS to pull back. He is not conscious of this. It’s just the dynamic of the relationship.

What are male twin flame feelings?

Most of the time, he “uses” a relationship, family, or career as a reason that they can’t be together. This is the absolute truth for him.

He tells himself that he did the right thing or made the right decision.

Masculine has been taught for centuries that they need to take “responsibility.” They have to “provide” for their family or have to focus on their job. For them, male twin flame feelings have no value in the practical world.

The Masculine see this from a logical point of view.

He most likely tells himself that it wouldn’t have worked out anyway. That their Feminine will leave them sooner or later, so this is for the best.

That you can’t “just” follow your heart and that they have responsibilities.

The Masculine is more “logical” and for him, all the spiritual stuff and the connection without logic is just TOO much and TOO weird.

And the more the feminine tries to push this “connection” onto him, the more he pulls back.

Because the Feminine is more connected to her heart, she often feels he is “the one.”

Male twin flame feelings are not like that, and he might think something like: “If she says I am “the one” THAT quickly and she doesn’t even know me, it’s probably just a fantasy I can’t live up to anyway.”

He really experiences the connection differently at this point and if you want to get passed separation, you have to accept this.

In most of the cases of our students, the Masculine was in another relationship. Most of the time these relationships are filled with attachment and expectations. OR there is no REAL fulfillment for the Masculine on all levels.

A lot of Divine Masculine are conditioned by society and they just want to do the right thing as per their conditioning. For them, male twin flame feelings have no value.

It is a real challenge for those masculine to break old patterns, to see what negative behavior and patterns they were actually feeding in their partner and themselves by staying in the relationship.

The Masculine also have a rough time believing that love is REAL and male twin flame feelings mean something. Most of them had never really experienced true love, and they are afraid to receive it because they were scared it would be taken away from them again.

Note that not every masculine feels this way and every male twin flame feelings will be different, just like every Feminine experiences it in a different way. Every journey is different.

Why my twin flame has blocked me?

Because of the push dynamic of Feminine, it could even be that he feels “repulsed” by her.

So pulling away or blocking you will feel like a relief to them.

He has to feel safe and pulling back gives him a sense of control and safety.

He tries to go back to his old life and tries to forget all about the connection. He probably keeps himself busy with work stuff and tells himself that he made the right decision.

What are male twin flame feelings in separation?

You might have a relationship in your life where you did not want a particular person to be near you, but that person was not leaving you.

Think of that relationship where YOU pulled back or where you were the runner. How did YOU feel?

Do you see that in that relationship the other pushes all their energy onto you?

How does that make you react?

What are your thoughts and feelings about their push energy?

That’s probably how your counterpart is experiencing it.

The MOST important thing that you can do on this journey is to stop PUSHING and instead Give them ALL the space they need.

You can Work on your blocks and your connection to God.

If they are your Twin Flame, they WILL come back!

You CAN’T go into “rescue mode.”

This journey is about YOU. He needs to give HIMSELF permission to receive your love.

If you are in communication, of course, you can support each other side by side, but you need to work on YOUR life and on balancing YOUR energies and just becoming the best person YOU can be.

If you are TRULY Twin Flames, because you have the same Soul, it will shift in him too.

This is the journey of your SOUL and a relationship with him isn’t going to magically solve everything for you.

Your masculine is JUST mirroring your OWN blocks.

If you are going through your healing work and aligning with your God Consciousness you will see sides of them that were always hidden from you but were really always there.

That’s the magic of the Twin Flame Journey. That’s EXACTLY what it is.

You CAN’T find your Twin Flame outside of you. They ARE you.

Your Twin Flame is INSIDE of you. Your energy is THEIR energy.

How long do you have to wait for your twin flame?

Thousands of feminists “wait” years and years for their Masculine to “choose them.”

If you are also waiting for your masculine then know that this is a SPIRITUAL journey FIRST. It’s a SOUL Journey.

It’s about surrendering your EGO self to your Soul. If you do that, everything will change.

If someone is truly your Twin Flame, you WILL end up together. But how and when, is not up to your Ego.

You can’t control the timing. You just have to do the inner work and use the best possible techniques available to speed up this process.

It will happen once you surrendered your Ego to your Soul.

And if you have done that, it doesn’t matter anyway, because you are whole and complete and that’s the whole goal of the journey!

In the end, you have the same Soul, so everything you see in your Twin Flame is somewhere present in YOU.

And if you heal and shift it in yourself, you heal and shift it in your Twin Flame.

And if he is not the BEST person for you to be in the end, there will be an amazing relationship with someone else waiting for you.

When does the masculine twin flame return?

The Masculine gets PULLED back in the Twin Flame connection if your energies are balanced and if you surrendered your Ego to your Soul. If you are true Twin Flames.

You just have to work on yourself. But you have to let go of the How and the When and instead focus on your inner work as well as You have to trust God (The Universe, Creation) completely.

And most of all, you have to reach a state of Enjoyment in yourself.

We know the Twin Flame journey can be SO challenging. But it’s also MAGICAL.

And the more you will do inner work, the more you will see and feel the magic behind your connection.

How to help your twin flame?

If the Feminine starts healing and starts pulling back her energy, their energies become balanced again.

It’s then that the Masculine can start to become aware that it’s not THAT simple to shake the connection.

It’s not a matter of “just” flicking a switch, just like it’s not for you.

In the Healing process, you start to learn that your counterpart is your exact mirror.

Truly getting how this works is going to make a HUGE difference in your healing process.

That is what we teach in our inner work program.

You really have to go into your heart and feel your OWN truth.

Don’t forget that your twin flame is YOU.

So whatever your counterpart is doing, on some level you are doing too.

If you shift YOUR energy and heal YOUR patterns, they will heal too and make changes.

(Reference Blog: Manifestmagically, Author: Maartje)

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What happens when your twin flame dies?

If someone’s twin flame dies, then no doubt it is a very painful experience. But this pain can be transcended by knowing the reasons for this loss and this pain can be completely eliminated by spiritual union with the soul of your twin flame.

Can twin flames be separated for years?

Since twin flames are always together in spirit, whether they both realize it or not, it’s imperative to know that if your twin flame dies then it will actually bring the soul of your twin flame, closer to you.

You may be wondering how this happens or how it is possible, but when you pause and think of it, it actually makes a lot of sense.

When twin flame dies, although it may hurt you in the physical world, however in the spirit world, you are ALWAYS together.

No matter what relationship you have had with your twin flame in the physical world, your twin flame’s soul is with you from eons i.e. forever and beyond.

You have been twin flames all your lives and there is no way your twin is “gone”.

What you have to remember is the fact that despite your relationship with your twin flame in this life, your souls are always joined.

If in our day-to-day waking lives, you can feel your twin flames’ presence and your twin’s energy. It means when twin flame dies, it simply makes it easier for you to connect with their soul.

Remember, that in order for someone to be your twin flame, you have had lives with that person, often countless and numerous ones and each time, you have both fought on a metaphysical level to stay together.

When you or your twin flame dies, it just makes it simpler for you guys to actually be together on an astral level.

Your twin flame is forever with you, we just live in a physical body!

What are the reasons for early death?

So why a twin flame dies?

There can be multiple reasons.

How does karma result in death in the family?


In some of your previous birth, you might have died early and your twin flame would have to live alone without you.

Now you are experiencing a similar situation when your twin flame dies and you are living the pain that his death has caused you.

At the same time, there can be some other karmic reasons for early deaths as well i.e. the family of your twin flame choose to experience the death of a member in order to clear some of their karma. For e.g.

Dhitrashtra from Mahabharata asked lord Krishna that why his 100 child were killed.

To this, he was shown a vision that in one of his past lives, he was a hunter. One day, out of frustration, he killed 100 kids of a bird. So he was merely clearing his karma.

How is spiritual progress related to death?

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Some mature to old people also choose to leave the body because their soul realizes that they are not progressing spiritually and due to the conditioning they have received, they will not be able to move ahead on their spiritual journey.

Instead, they will waste the remaining years of their life in unnecessary activities.

So these souls donate their remaining life years to some other close soul, in their family or relation, who has more chance to progress spiritually and then this soul leaves early.

How does ascension result in death?


Not every person is able to handle the process of ascension i.e. they are not trained enough to handle/transmute their emotions and so they also choose to leave this birth so that in the next birth, they can choose better birth settings and get the proper training to handle these emotions.

As the complete earth is ascending, means raising in vibration, so some people are not able to match themself with the change in vibration frequency and so they leave their bodies. For e.g.

Lets say in a swimming pool, there was 4ft of water. So everyone was able to go inside without drowning.

Now let’s say that increase in vibration means an increase in water in the swimming pool and let’s say the water has increased to 8ft.

Now only those who know how to swim will be able to stay in the pool, the rest of them will have to leave. They can learn how to swim and then they can come back again.

How death results in a life-changing decision?

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Sometimes a soul chooses to take birth and then leave at a certain time to give a soul shock to close ones. This soul shock can result in life-changing decisions for family members. For e.g.

A popular Past Life regression therapist named Dr. Brian Weiss had a new born son, who died at age of around 3 months.

At the time of the birth of Adam, Dr. Brian Weiss was in the process of choosing medicine science or psychiatry field.

When his son died, it shook the faith of Dr Brian Weiss in medical science, as it could not save his child. And then he chose the psychiatry line.

Many years later, during the regression of a patient, it was revealed that Adam was a very highly evolved soul and it only took birth and left early so that Dr. Brian Weiss can move in the direction of psychiatry line and contribute his magnificent work to the whole world.

What is twin flame soul shock?

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When a twin flame dies, the other twin flame gets the biggest soul shock for a period of time.

Although it is a sad fact that anyone should die, when your twin flame dies, you will always feel a deep sense of loss.

This loss is very similar to when twin flames come together and one decides to run away. It’s also called soul shock.

Your twin showed up in your life to inspire your spirit as well as to show you how you didn’t love yourself.

On many levels, both you and your twin flame, don’t love yourselves, and you reflect that in your interactions with each other.

He acted his part by showing you triggers and now as his part is done, he has left the physical world so that his soul can assist you more easily from the spirit plane and thus you two can attain spiritual union.

What is a spiritual union?

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Spiritual union means that you are able to feel the presence of the soul of your twin flame whenever you want to feel them.

You feel complete in yourself and thus don’t need them to feel complete.

You have learnt to be happy with yourself, whether you have someone in your life or not.

This is a stage where the physical presence of your twin flame does not matter at all.

In many of our videos, we have described that the Twin flame journey is first about spiritual union with the soul of your Twin flame and then comes physical union.

And even if your twin flame dies, it is still possible to attain spiritual union.

As everyone has a twin flame but not all twin-flame couples incarnate together on earth.

So it also means that if your twin flame is not incarnated with you in the same timeline or your twin flame dies, even then you can unite with them on the spirit plane.

What happens when the soul leaves the body?

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When a soul leaves the body, it goes to the spirit world and depending on its spiritual growth it goes to the appropriate spirit plane from 1 to 7.

In our previous videos we had mentioned that twin flames need to unite in the last spirit world, only then they can proceed to the next universe. And they can unite only if they have the same spiritual growth.

If the soul of one twin has grown spiritually, but on the other hand soul of another twin has not cleared karmas then the soul in the spirit world will have to wait for 100 or a thousand years for its twin flame to rise up spiritually.

Only after that, they can finally unite in the last spirit world and then they can merge back into one soul and move ahead to the next universes.

You can watch our video on this concept of the spirit world.

How to handle grief after a death?

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If your twin flame dies then no doubt you are going through pain.

Don’t you think that your first step should be to get out of this pain?

And your question should be that what you can do next?

The only solution to this pain is some kind of practice that will help you to get into a spiritual union with the soul of your twin flame.

We call these practices, inner work.

What is possible with inner work?

Twin Flame Inner Work Program

Inner work is the only possible way to attain peace and happiness despite everything that has happened.

With inner work, it is possible to attain peace and Spiritual union with the soul of your twin.

During inner work, you might come to realize that the person who has died is not your twin flame, but a very close soul also known as a twin ray.

This soul had a soul contract to give a soul shock to you. And at the right time with your inner work, your true twin flame might emerge in your life.

It is also possible that the soul of your twin flame may reincarnate in a new body OR

his soul can come early in another body as a walk-in soul.

The possibilities are endless. With inner work, anything is possible.

What is a walk-in soul?

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Let’s say that there is a person named Rakesh who has a soul named R1.

Let’s say that due to some reason, the soul of Rakesh named R1 needs to leave this body. With the Divine’s intervention, another soul can occupy this body when the R1 soul is leaving it. This other soul can be called as R2.

As R2 was not there when the body of Rakesh took birth on earth, this soul R2 just arrived recently, so it will be called a Walk-in soul.

So a walk-in means the original soul of a person departs their body and it is replaced with a new, different, soul.

And the good news is that this new soul can be the soul of your twin flame.

How to identify your walk-in twin flame?

identify twin flame

So how will you identify your twin flame when it meets you in a new body?

We will answer this question with another question how did you identify it first time that so and so person is your twin flame?

Just go back in time and try to see when you first met your twin flame, and then how did you recognize that you have a special bond with this person. A bond is known as a twin flame bond.

The answer here is that it is a matter of inner knowing. When you meet a person, who carries the soul of your twin flame, you will get pulled towards that person. You will gain experience with all twin flame signs with them.

And your heart will let you know that this person is your twin flame.

You can watch our video on twin flame signs in the card above to know more about the signs of a twin flame.

What to do if twin flame tries to connect?

So what should be done when the soul of your twin flame tries to connect with you again, maybe after separation or rebirth or as a walk-in soul?

All you can do is connect with your inner guidance and see what guidance you receive about this situation. Your inner guidance will guide you in every situation.

And Inner work is the only way to connect with your inner guidance. Only inner guidance will reveal the next steps for you.

No one from outside will be able to tell you that so and so the person is your twin flame or what you should do next. Your journey is unique and only you can guide yourself with inner work.

That is why inner work is so important.

Here are a few lines that suit here:

THE BODY MEETS WITH DEATH BUT (जिस्म को मौत आती है लेकिन)

THE SOUL DOESN’T DIE! (रूह को मौत आती नहीं है)

LOVE’S LIGHT, LIGHTED WILL IT REMAIN (इश्क रोशन है, रोशन रहेगा)

ITS LIGHT NEVER FADES! (रोशनी इस की जाती नहीं है)

Reference Blog: Manifestmagically By Maartje
Reference Book: Many Life many masters By Dr Brian Weiss
Reference Book: Laws of the spirit world By Khurshed Bhavnagri

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