What to do if my twin flame is married? – 100% Authentic Story

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What to do if my twin flame is married?

Many twin flames who approach us have same question that What to do if my twin flame is married?

This is because they have met their counterpart in this life when either one of them is already married or both of them are already married to other partners.

Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this third party situation.

If you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series below.

When twin flames meet?

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Tinku was around 35 and was well settled both financially, emotionally and family wise, but still he used to feel a kind of emptiness in his life.

He used to feel that he needs a spiritual friend who can help him in growing.

Tina was around 40. She had seen some broken relationships in the form of abandonment, betrayal and other kind of trauma.

Both of them had previous partners and also had kids with these partners.

Note that even before Tinku and Tina had met each other, both of them had started to feel that their partners are drifting away emotionally from them and it created an emotional vacuum for both Tinku and Tina.

So when Tinku and Tina met in this life time, they immediately felt at home.

Tinku and Tina started to grow closer due to the irresistible pull between them plus it was also filling the emotional vacuum that has been created by the distancing of their partners.

Initially it looked like a nice friendship and as time passed, they became more and more closer to each other.

Both of them started to loose interest in their current partners, and due to this they also started to feel guilty as they felt that they are cheating with their partners.

Why twin flames face separation?

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Tinku and Tina had a strong bond due to which their existing partners started to feel insecure.

So these partners started to oppose the relation between Tinku & Tina.

As this opposition increased, it became more stressful for Tinku & Tina and everyone else involved in this situation.

Tinku and Tina were not ready to leave each other, but by each passing day, the stress was increasing.

Inner guilt and also opposition from others, plus society conditioning was creating more and more stress & restlessness.

And so, one day when stress crossed tolerable limits, they were forced to get separate from each other.

It was a situation of helplessness.

When you remember that “my twin flame is married”, you my face this helplessness.

Why one Twin Flame have to do all work?

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In the last few days before getting separated, a higher master soul appeared during a regression session of Tina.

Tinku asked this question to master soul that Why Tinku and Tina had met so late in life and how this relationship will survive the opposition of society?

To this, Master soul replied that “You will find a Way Tinku and Things will be sorted.”.

Universe was giving signs to Tinku that his relation with Tina is special.

So once Tinku and Tina got separated, Tinku started to search for answers.

Fortunately, he had opportunity to come in contact with a spiritual master, and with his guidance, Tinku accepted and embraced this separation and started on the path of inner work.

Twin flame was a totally new concept for Tinku.

But with guidance from his Spiritual Master and Universe, he understood that for now the inner work is to be only done by him, until he is able to trigger the awakening of Tina through Inner work and energy work.

Tinku understood that Tina is acting under the effect of her ancestral karma and society conditioning and he can clear these karmas and conditioning, just by working on himself.

He understood that with his inner work, Tina will follow him shortly.

Note here that even if you think “Oh! my twin flame is married”, still one person from a twin flame pair can do inner work and help their twin flame to awaken.

Can I Forget My Twin Flame? 

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Tinku asked him self that can he forget Tina?

He knew that he can’t forget Tina, so instead of waiting, its better to continue on the path of inner work to overcome the pain and confusion that has been triggered by this situation.

He understood that it is just a test, a preparation phase for a cosmic marriage with his twin flame and inner work will heal this pain and will give him peace and clarity and he can manifest harmony with Tina.

He understood that with inner work, every thing is possible even if he was constantly thinking about question that “my twin flame is married”.

So its better to focus on his inner work.

How do you know if someone is your twin flame or soulmate?


During separation, Tinku also faced this confusion that whether Tina is his Twin Flame or not.

Although he was seeing most of the signs that were described as Twin Flame Signs like special connection, having same values, connection at all levels, time stopped when near twin flame, seeing her name everywhere, etc.

As discussed in this video, he was also getting guidance from master spirits to find a way and sort out everything,

Still he was confused as he had never experienced such phenomena before in his life and a thought that was bothering him was that “my twin flame is married”.

His master guided him that only way to get confirmation about this connection is to keep on doing inner work.

It is said that If you let your upset mind settle, then your course will also become clear.

How to Not Hurt My Partner for Twin Flame?

Tinku also had doubts that whether he is doing right with his current partner?

So he asked this question to his spiritual Master:

Tinku: “Master, is it right to seek my twin flame, while I already have a partner and my twin flame is married?”

Master: “Tinku, whether you seeks freedom from all this confusion by doing inner work or whether you seek your Twin flame?”

Tinku: “Master, my first priority is to get clarity and to get out of all this confusions.

I will do inner work to establish my self in state of being Yogasth.

Among my Twin flame and my partner, whoever is going to follow the journey of inner work to reach a state of being Yogasth, will stay with me.”

Master: “Tinku, keep on moving ahead on the path of inner work and keep this in mind that things will turn out for the highest good of all, which includes you, your partner, your kids and the partner and kids of your Twin Flame.”

Understanding Twin Flame Union

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If you are separated from our twin flame, then first priority during separation is to get back into contact with them even if this thought is there in your mind that “my twin flame is married”.

For Tinku and Tina, union did not mean marriage.

Union only meant that they are able to talk or interact with each other openly without any stress or fears and no one has objection to it.

It also means that Tinku was not targeting to leave his partner or kids for twin flame.

And know this that Tinku did lot of inner work and finally got clarity and further got into harmony with his twin flame in couple of years.

His consciousness expanded with his inner work and it effected positively everyone including his Twin flame and his current partner.

Tinku’s relation with his current partner changed to be like friends, where they give respect and freedom to each other to live as they please to.

Tinku’s partner moved ahead in her journey to unite with her Twin flame and Tinku is helping her in getting ahead in this journey.

Tina’s partner also changed completely and he moved out of her life to pursue his soul mission and to clear other pending karmas.

Tina is helping him clear these karmas by providing him guidance, assistance and healing.

And now Tinku and Tina can both meet openly without any fears or stress and they are also guiding other twin flame couples to move ahead in their journey to harmony.

What is Twin Flame inner work?

There are many types of inner work, but if you are targeting twin flame journey, then your inner work should be specific to this journey.

Its good if you are already doing any kind of inner work.

But if you want to accelerate your journey of harmony with your twin flame, then you can see details of our online twin flame inner work program, which is specific to twin flame journey.

As for tooth problem, you go to a Dentist & for skin problem, you go to a skin specialist, similarly for twin flame journey, its better to do a inner work that is specifically designed for twin flame journey.

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How long does Twin Flame reunion take?

In this post we are going to discuss that How long does Twin Flame reunion take? AND How do we know that how much progress we had made on twin flame reunion journey?

Are twin flames are highly evolved?

Twin flames are like those superheroes or Gods, who had forgotten their powers.

As we take birth on earth after forgetting everything, so we are not able to recall our wisdom and knowledge.

And so we think our self as normal human beings and we also try to do the same as others are doing i.e. eat, drink and be marry.

But, Twin flames have the Samskara that they can overcome these limitations of being a normal human being.

Rest of the humanity don’t even have this capability or permission to this inner work.

You must have head of that we can not take God’s name without his permission.

Which souls can do higher practices?

There are some spiritual sciences that can help you awaken at very fast speed, means you can remember your knowledge and wisdom at much faster pace.

Not every one have access or permission to learn these sciences and tools.

Some of you are learning these tools, may be from anywhere or from us in our Basic Inner work 1 Program, and had tried to teach these to their family members.

As per the feedback we had received from our students, their family members don’t pay attention to these tools because, its your journey and your destiny to move on this path, not your family’s path.

So, Only higher souls, Master Souls or twin souls have access to these tools.

So, When twin flame reunion happens?

As you will remember your knowledge and your wisdom, you will get closer to your twin soul into union.

How to check your progress?

How do we know that how much progress you had made on twin flame reunion journey by doing inner work?

If you look at this Vibration chart, you can see that this chart is divided into two parts.

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Below 250 its Lower Frequency Zone and Above 250 its higher Frequency Zone

This chart is also showing the frequency from 20 to 700+ for each emotion, feelings or mental state that we go through.

What is low vibration state?

If you are staying mostly between 20 to 250, then know that in this frequency twin flames stays in separation.

So if something happened in your past for which you feel

  • Shame
  • Guilt
  • Apathy means lack of interest
  • Grief
  • Fears like Fear of Abandonment
  • Humiliation
  • Injustice
  • Rejection
  • Desires – that when fulfilled gives joy and when not fulfilled gives Grief or sadness
  • Anger – Someone said something to you and you got angry, things don’t work as you want and so you got angry, someone came to your house without informing and so you got angry, your twin flame did not listen to you or cheated on you and so you got angry
  • Pride – Whatever happening in your life is being done by you
  • Courage – I am very brave and don’t let people cough

If you are mostly staying in these frequencies then currently you have not realized that whatever happening is as per divine’s will, and we are just viewers.

We are not the DOERS, we are just the viewers.

What is high vibration state?

And when you start to realize that you are just a viewer, then you start to reach 250 i.e. Neutrality. Then comes

  • Willingness – readiness to move ahead
  • Acceptance – Everything is acceptable
  • Reason – You start to realize that everything is happening under divine’s will. We are not doing anything but divine is getting it done through us.
  • Love – Unconditional love means you feel same love for every entity, whether its your twin or anyone else.
  • Joy – Always joyful. Whatever happens in your outside circumstances, you are always joyful.
  • Peace – Always peaceful.
  • Enlightenment – Lets not target it. I will only ask you to stay in peace or joy or Unconditional love.

And then you will find your twin besides you.

When twin flames end up together?

If you are a chaser right now, then your twin will start to follow you and come to you, if you stay in these higher frequencies.

In last few videos we had mentioned to do inner work to move ahead in union.

Whatever kind of inner work you are doing, if its helping you to stay between frequency of 250 to 600 for most of the time then understand that your inner work is working for you.

If you are fluctuating between high frequency zone and low frequency zone, then it means that you need to do more work.

And when you will be able to start staying in higher frequencies most of the time, then you will not ask this question that when will I unite with my twin?

And the most wonderful thing between twin flames is that the more you work on your self, the more it will help and effect positively your twin flame because you two share same energy as you two are same soul.

What ever they were doing to hurt you will cease to exists.

So they will also start to stay in higher frequencies.

How to clear twin flame issues?

The outside interference in your relation like

  • Twin Flames already Married to other partners
  • Twin Flame having Children with another partner
  • Different family status, caste or religion
  • Big Age Differences
  • Male much younger then female, especially in Indian society
  • Same Gender twins
  • Non cooperation by Families
  • Unawakened Twin Flame
  • Cheating twin flame
  • Running OR Ignoring by Twin Flame
  • Foreigner twin flame
  • Celebrity Twin flame
  • Or May be some more

All of these will automatically resolve for the highest good of all.

As you keep on doing your inner work, these outside issues will start to vanish.

As you will become awakened fully, these restrictions will fall away and you will be ready to unite.

These restrictions are only there so that you do your inner work to unite.

How to check your progress?

So to summarize that how much progress we had made on twin flame reunion journey, you can keep this Vibration chart as your reference.

Keep on checking that where are you mostly on this scale.

You know that your goal is to reach higher frequency zone, where twin flame reunion happens in harmony.

For E.g. If we have to travel from Chandigarh to Delhi, there are mile-stones on the side of road that tells us that this many kilometers are left to reach destination.

Similarly this vibration chart is your milestone chart that will give you an accurate reading of how much more inner work is to be done to reach an harmonious twin flame reunion.

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