What to do if my twin flame is married? – 100% Authentic Story

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What to do if my twin flame is married?

Many twin flames who approach us have same question that What to do if my twin flame is married?

This is because they have met their counterpart in this life when either one of them is already married or both of them are already married to other partners.

Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this third party situation.

If you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series below.

When twin flames meet?

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Tinku was around 35 and was well settled both financially, emotionally and family wise, but still he used to feel a kind of emptiness in his life.

He used to feel that he needs a spiritual friend who can help him in growing.

Tina was around 40. She had seen some broken relationships in the form of abandonment, betrayal and other kind of trauma.

Both of them had previous partners and also had kids with these partners.

Note that even before Tinku and Tina had met each other, both of them had started to feel that their partners are drifting away emotionally from them and it created an emotional vacuum for both Tinku and Tina.

So when Tinku and Tina met in this life time, they immediately felt at home.

Tinku and Tina started to grow closer due to the irresistible pull between them plus it was also filling the emotional vacuum that has been created by the distancing of their partners.

Initially it looked like a nice friendship and as time passed, they became more and more closer to each other.

Both of them started to loose interest in their current partners, and due to this they also started to feel guilty as they felt that they are cheating with their partners.

Why twin flames face separation?

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Tinku and Tina had a strong bond due to which their existing partners started to feel insecure.

So these partners started to oppose the relation between Tinku & Tina.

As this opposition increased, it became more stressful for Tinku & Tina and everyone else involved in this situation.

Tinku and Tina were not ready to leave each other, but by each passing day, the stress was increasing.

Inner guilt and also opposition from others, plus society conditioning was creating more and more stress & restlessness.

And so, one day when stress crossed tolerable limits, they were forced to get separate from each other.

It was a situation of helplessness.

When you remember that “my twin flame is married”, you my face this helplessness.

Why one Twin Flame have to do all work?

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In the last few days before getting separated, a higher master soul appeared during a regression session of Tina.

Tinku asked this question to master soul that Why Tinku and Tina had met so late in life and how this relationship will survive the opposition of society?

To this, Master soul replied that “You will find a Way Tinku and Things will be sorted.”.

Universe was giving signs to Tinku that his relation with Tina is special.

So once Tinku and Tina got separated, Tinku started to search for answers.

Fortunately, he had opportunity to come in contact with a spiritual master, and with his guidance, Tinku accepted and embraced this separation and started on the path of inner work.

Twin flame was a totally new concept for Tinku.

But with guidance from his Spiritual Master and Universe, he understood that for now the inner work is to be only done by him, until he is able to trigger the awakening of Tina through Inner work and energy work.

Tinku understood that Tina is acting under the effect of her ancestral karma and society conditioning and he can clear these karmas and conditioning, just by working on himself.

He understood that with his inner work, Tina will follow him shortly.

Note here that even if you think “Oh! my twin flame is married”, still one person from a twin flame pair can do inner work and help their twin flame to awaken.

Can I Forget My Twin Flame? 

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Tinku asked him self that can he forget Tina?

He knew that he can’t forget Tina, so instead of waiting, its better to continue on the path of inner work to overcome the pain and confusion that has been triggered by this situation.

He understood that it is just a test, a preparation phase for a cosmic marriage with his twin flame and inner work will heal this pain and will give him peace and clarity and he can manifest harmony with Tina.

He understood that with inner work, every thing is possible even if he was constantly thinking about question that “my twin flame is married”.

So its better to focus on his inner work.

How do you know if someone is your twin flame or soulmate?

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During separation, Tinku also faced this confusion that whether Tina is his Twin Flame or not.

Although he was seeing most of the signs that were described as Twin Flame Signs like special connection, having same values, connection at all levels, time stopped when near twin flame, seeing her name everywhere, etc.

As discussed in this video, he was also getting guidance from master spirits to find a way and sort out everything,

Still he was confused as he had never experienced such phenomena before in his life and a thought that was bothering him was that “my twin flame is married”.

His master guided him that only way to get confirmation about this connection is to keep on doing inner work.

It is said that If you let your upset mind settle, then your course will also become clear.

How to Not Hurt My Partner for Twin Flame?

Tinku also had doubts that whether he is doing right with his current partner?

So he asked this question to his spiritual Master:

Tinku: “Master, is it right to seek my twin flame, while I already have a partner and my twin flame is married?”

Master: “Tinku, whether you seeks freedom from all this confusion by doing inner work or whether you seek your Twin flame?”

Tinku: “Master, my first priority is to get clarity and to get out of all this confusions.

I will do inner work to establish my self in state of being Yogasth.

Among my Twin flame and my partner, whoever is going to follow the journey of inner work to reach a state of being Yogasth, will stay with me.”

Master: “Tinku, keep on moving ahead on the path of inner work and keep this in mind that things will turn out for the highest good of all, which includes you, your partner, your kids and the partner and kids of your Twin Flame.”

Understanding Twin Flame Union

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If you are separated from our twin flame, then first priority during separation is to get back into contact with them even if this thought is there in your mind that “my twin flame is married”.

For Tinku and Tina, union did not mean marriage.

Union only meant that they are able to talk or interact with each other openly without any stress or fears and no one has objection to it.

It also means that Tinku was not targeting to leave his partner or kids for twin flame.

And know this that Tinku did lot of inner work and finally got clarity and further got into harmony with his twin flame in couple of years.

His consciousness expanded with his inner work and it effected positively everyone including his Twin flame and his current partner.

Tinku’s relation with his current partner changed to be like friends, where they give respect and freedom to each other to live as they please to.

Tinku’s partner moved ahead in her journey to unite with her Twin flame and Tinku is helping her in getting ahead in this journey.

Tina’s partner also changed completely and he moved out of her life to pursue his soul mission and to clear other pending karmas.

Tina is helping him clear these karmas by providing him guidance, assistance and healing.

And now Tinku and Tina can both meet openly without any fears or stress and they are also guiding other twin flame couples to move ahead in their journey to harmony.

What is Twin Flame inner work?

There are many types of inner work, but if you are targeting twin flame journey, then your inner work should be specific to this journey.

Its good if you are already doing any kind of inner work.

But if you want to accelerate your journey of harmony with your twin flame, then you can see details of our online twin flame inner work program, which is specific to twin flame journey.

As for tooth problem, you go to a Dentist & for skin problem, you go to a skin specialist, similarly for twin flame journey, its better to do a inner work that is specifically designed for twin flame journey.

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(HINDI) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(HINDI) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


(HINDI) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Ritu Om and Jnana Param explains in Hindi in this video about “How many are twin flame stages?”.

Most(not all) twin flames go through these twin flame stages.

Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:21 What are twin Flame stages?
01:12 1) Longing
02:08 2) Bubble love: The beginning
02:57 3) Balancing/Preparation stage
03:47 Why My Twin hurts Me?
05:31 Ways of Individual Balancing
05:37 a) No Separation Phase at all
06:01 b) Early Reunion after short Separation
06:17 c) On and off and on and off
07:05 Example – c) On and off
07:33 d) Separation and Friendship only until all is cleared
08:23 Example – d) Separation and Friendship
09:19 e) Spiritual Connection first (Mostly between celebrity twins)
10:19 f) Separation and no Reunion
10:57 Example – f) Separation and no Reunion
11:32 4) Reunion Initiated
12:58 5) Complete Reunion
14:25 Outro

(Reference: thewakeupexperience, Author: Vera Ingeborg)

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(ENGLISH) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(ENGLISH) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


(ENGLISH) How many are twin flame stages? | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Ritu Om and Jnana Param explains in English in this video about “How many are twin flame stages?”.

Most(not all) twin flames go through these twin flame stages.

Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:20 What are twin Flame stages?
00:56 1) Longing
01:26 2) Bubble love: The beginning
01:55 3) Balancing/Preparation stage
02:33 Why My Twin hurts Me?
03:40 Ways of Individual Balancing
03:47 3.a) No Separation Phase at all
04:05 3.b) Early Reunion after short Separation
04:18 3.c) On and off and on and off
04:45 3.d) Separation and Friendship only until all is cleared
05:16 Example – Separation and Friendship
05:57 3.e) Spiritual Connection first (Mostly between celebrity twins)
06:31 3.f) Separation and no Reunion
07:00 Example – Separation and no Reunion
07:25 4) Reunion Initiated
08:21 5) Complete Reunion
09:30 Outro

(Reference: thewakeupexperience, Author: Vera Ingeborg)

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(HINDI) Balancing Between Twin Partners | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(HINDI) Balancing Between Twin Partners | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


(HINDI) Balancing Between Twin Partners | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

Ritu Om and Jnana Param explains in Hindi in this video about the “Balancing Between Twin Partners” ( जोड़ी के बीच का संतुलन ) i.e. Stage 2 of Twin Flame Union Stages.

Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:23 Individual balancing
01:56 Balancing between two twin partners
03:17 Learning about energy
05:12 Different Feelings than “Individual balancing” stage
06:29 Redirecting energies
07:57 Energetic pendulum
09:24 Inner peace and bliss
13:16 Upcoming Stages of Union
13:38 Outro

Generally separation phase starts, after the initial bubble love stage i.e. the initial stage where you feel immense love with your twin.

Then starts Individual balancing stage in which you are cleansing all the heavier emotions like shame, guilt, Apathy, Grief, Fear, Desire, Anger, Pride out of your system.

These heavier emotions block your energy centers i.e. chakras, and clearing these emotions lead to your overall energy system getting cleared.

This is the time when all of your own fears and past trauma and patterns come to surface i.e. all those events from your past in which you felt these heavier emotions, will start to repeat again in your life.

Going through this stage is the most painful experience, because you have to discover first that what is actually happening to you, and find a way how to deal with all the overwhelming emotional releases that the twin flame encounter triggered in you.

In this stage You are experiencing incredible pain during the “healing” process and this pain is released with crying or anger attacks, that can last for days, weeks, months and even years – depending upon that how much is piled up inside you and how ready and open you are to face all of this.

During this stage, you are also learning to not analyze or interpret, cause currently you analyze everything.

You are also learning not to go into the drama.

You are learning not to go into the stories your mind creates around drama.

You are learning not to project your mental projection onto your twin.

In short you are learning to sit with all the dissatisfaction/pain that you are going through, and thus you are learning to surrender.

It feels like being on a permanent rollercoaster ride from the highest highs of bliss to the lowest lows of pain.

You can feel completely blissful and happy in the one moment and absolutely devastated in the next.

And this can change from one minute to the other and back again the next minute.

The whole emotional system is rebalancing the energy change that the encounter with your twin has triggered.

It is often referred to as Kundalini rising.

It is systematically cleansing out of heavier emotions from every corner of your system. Nothing gets the chance to hide away any longer.

You start to see 1111 everywhere, which represents that you are starting a new life with a new beginning. It is an invitation to let go of the old and fake 3D self and life, and move forward into the direction of your essence, and true life purpose.

It is the time of having your ego surrender. But Your ego is fighting hard to keep its position in the lead.

No doubt it is tough, and not everyone makes it through this stage, because it means to let go of everything we used to believe to be true.

(Reference: https://thewakeupexperience.eu/a-balancing-act-twin-flames-and-sexual-energy/, Author: Vera)

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(HINDI) Individual Balancing Union Stage | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(HINDI) Individual Balancing Union Stage | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Individual Balancing Union Stage | HINDI | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Ritu Om and Jnana Param explains in Hindi in this video about the “Individual balancing union stage ( स्वयं का संतुलन )” of a twin flame journey.

Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:47 The Individual Balancing
02:00 Painful Experience
02:45 Duration of Healing process
04:14 From Analysis to Surrender
04:46 Drama
05:12 Mental Stories
05:22 Mental Projections
06:43 Rollercoaster ride
09:38 1111
10:02 Example of fake 3D self
11:20 Twin Flame Spies
11:59 Meeting Your twin
13:21 Ego
14:49 Tough Indeed
16:19 Is it worth
17:42 Stages of Union
17:56 Outro

(Reference: thewakeupexperience, Author: Vera Ingeborg)

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(English) Individual Balancing Union Stage | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(English) Individual Balancing Union Stage | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


(English) Individual Balancing Union Stage  | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

(HINDI) Twin Flame Union Stages | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(HINDI) Twin Flame Union Stages | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Twin Flame Union Stages | Hindi | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

(English) Twin Flame Union Stages | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

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(English) Twin Flame Union Stages | Ritu OM | Jnana Param


Twin Flame Union Stages | English | Ritu OM | Jnana Param

What twin flame issues are blocking your Union? | Top 1 Surprising Blocks

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What twin flame issues are blocking your Union?

This healing meditation tries to help you find twin flame issues that are blocking your union with a twin flame.

You can also use it to find out what is causing the separation between you and your twin flame.

This session can be repeated weekly and can be done anytime in the day.

What twin flame issues are blocking your Union? | Weekly | Hindi
Meditation starts at 9:28

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Can you forget your twin flame

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Can you forget your twin flame?

Many people ask this question Can you forget your twin flame and move on?

Do you also think that you can forget your twin flame by getting busy in work or by having another partner? Think Again!

How Twin Flames are connected?

Twin Flame Heart Bond

Let’s first see how twin flames are connected.

On the left side of this picture, we can see that the male twin’s higher self is always present with the physical female twin.

And on the right side, we can see that the female twin’s higher self is always connected with the physical male twin.

And higher selves of both of them are always connected with an energetic cord that is connecting their hearts or heart chakra.

What are energetic cords?

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Let’s discuss a bit about energetic cords.

Energetic cords are like channels from which energy flows.

An energy cord is created when we get into any kind of relationship with anyone.

For example, close relations like family or romantic relations, less close ones like office colleagues, boss, further less close ones like shopkeepers, etc.

And energy tends to flow between these cords from the person who is in a higher energy state to a person who is in a lower energy state.

Also know that energetic cords can be cut with intention so that if someone is draining your energy then you can cut the energy cord with them.

This also means that you can get free from the energy of all your past lovers that you are still carrying around and other negative connections.

In other words, we can say that YES! it is possible to forget your past relations.

We don’t need to cut positive cords as they uplift you.

So, All the energy cords can be cut but there is only one cord in this universe that we cannot cut. And that is the cord between the heart centers of the higher self of you and your twin.

Can you forget your twin flame?

So Can you forget your twin flame, accept their separation, and just move on?

Ask yourself, can you really break free from a part of yourself?

Sure, with time, it can become suppressed or dormant, but you can’t just cut it out of yourself.

You were one, before your birth, and no force of nature can break that union. It’s futile to hide or run away from your twin flame partner.

We try to run from ourselves our whole life, but where does it get us?

Do we succeed?

Does it give us peace? No!

We are creatures of mediocrity who are running from everything that remotely disturbs our peace. We only pacify our demons, when we embrace ourselves.

And Twin flame is just a piece of us that scattered away and just waiting to be found again.

It won’t matter what you want or what your will is. A soul contract binds you, and you have to fulfill it at all costs.

Once we have met our TF in the 3d, we have forever reconnected through a cord of energy from our heart chakras.

The Twin flames’ lives are forever changed. It is home, it is what we have missed and craved our entire lives.

Advice for Separation

Understand that you are not in the separation phase, you are in the preparation phase.

For example, when a couple is about to get married they stay separate for some time before the day of their marriage in order to complete the preparation for the ceremony.

Similarly, this time while you are away from your twin is time to prepare yourself for the cosmic marriage with your cosmic partner.

So use this time to delve into the inner connection between you and your Twin.

Learn the lesson that separation is an illusion, and you will open up to coming together once again.

Summary

At times, it might seem that this soul contract and the twin flame union are destroying you, and leaving you in a state of dismay.

But with time, you’ll understand that all of this was for your betterment.

In Mahabharata, Arjuna tells lord Krishna that he doesn’t want to fight his relatives on the other side. He wants to leave this kingdom and go to the forest and meditate for the rest of his life.

To this, Lord Krishna replies,

How can you leave something that is not even yours?
First, fight and get this kingdom and then decide whether you want to keep it or leave it.
Until you have it, you are just running away from the mission at hand.

We mean to say that with inner work, first achieve harmonious union with your twin, then you can decide whether you want to keep your twin flame in your life or you want to forget him/her.

If you are trying to forget your twin flame without doing your inner work, then you are just running away from the mission at hand.

Listening to others

And instead of listening to our intuitions, we listen to the opinions of our friends, family, healers, tarot card readers, astrologers, spiritual gurus, or other authority figures who have never submerged themselves in a twin flame relationship.

How many of you are there who have been guided by your intuition to read this post, but you still want confirmation that whether that person is your twin or not?

Your heart compass will always point in the direction of your twin flame. Follow your heart, and find your truth, instead of falling prey to the skepticism of the world.

Never settle for something mediocre! The pursuit of love is demanding. It is never easy.

Can you forget your twin flame and move on?

If you find a way to move on, then let us know as well, so that we can guide others who are more interested in forgetting their twin flame, instead of starting their inner work.

So, Can you forget your twin flame? Absolutely not!

(Reference Blog - SpiritualUnite)
(Reference Blog - TwinFlames1111, Author - Cassady Cayne)

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