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Having multiple partners? | Top 2 eye-opening examples
In this article, we will talk about what happens when we are having multiple partners.
By the end of this article you will know a free tool that can clear physical attraction toward others.
Why we feel attracted to someone?
In our video on past lovers, we mentioned that Past lovers are all those souls with whom we had intense relation, most probably sexual relation, in this life or in some previous lifetime.
These are the people to whom we get attracted automatically. Their presence around us gets our attention in a positive way.
We may feel physical attraction for such a person whenever they appear in your life.
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What is need of having multiple partners?
Let’s understand this with some examples from a holy book named Sripada Srivallabha Charitamrutam.
A living being takes many births in the process of evolution. It may be born as a female in some births, and as a male in some other births. It may also be born as an animal or a bird instead of a human.
Our First case is that, “If a man have physical relation with four or five females in a lifetime, then he will be born as a female in the next birth.
If the physical desires and urges of those four or five females are not destroyed, they will take birth as males and have physical indulgence with that female.”
Another case is of Mandodari from Ramayana, who was born as a male in one of her past births.
“As a male in that life, he had three wives. First one was fickle-minded wife, second was a cruel wife and third was a gentle-natured wife.
During Ramayana, Mandodari was born as female and The fickle-minded wife was born as a monkey under the name Vali, The cruel wife took birth as Ravana and the gentle-natured wife was born as Vibhishana.
First, Mandodari became a wife to Vali and gave birth to Angada.
Afterwards, she became the wife of Ravana.
After the death of Ravana, she became the royal wife of Vibhishana.
She was just exhausting her previous karmas with these three souls.
The prana at different stages when she was the wife of Vali, of Ravana and of Vibhishana were different and varied. Therefore, Mandodari is also a Maha pativrata.”
Note here that Mandodari did not had different husband in same time period, instead she had these partners one after another.
Having multiple partners at same time
So does it mean that is it ok when we are having multiple partners?
The answer is not a simple yes or no.
Physical union is a process in which lots of energy is exchanged between both partners.
Lets take a case where a person named Mr. A is having physical relation with Miss B, Miss C & Miss D.
He is having physical relation with these partners at different times i.e. all these partners don’t know each others.
But, as Mr. A is having multiple physical partner, this will result in the energy of all these people getting intermingled with each other.
These people will be able to sense energy of each other, without knowing that where this energy is coming from. When energy of other people gets mixed with our energy, it creates confusion in our mind.
Also if these partners somehow come to know about each other, then obviously they will feel cheated.
So its not a very good idea to have multiple physical partner at same time.
But if you have been at physical distance from your current partner for around 1.5 month to 3 month, then their energy decrease considerably in you and thus you will share very less of these energies between these partners.
If you know the higher energy clearing techniques as we teach in our inner work program, then it further clears energies of all past lovers from your energetic system.
What to do if you feel attracted to someone?
Then what should be done if you are attracted to someone other than your current partner.
First of all let us make clear that we are neither promoting physical relation outside your current relationship, nor are we against it.
We are only trying to educate about the optimal way to deal with this attraction.
Physical desire is the most powerful desire in this universe.
So in case you are having this attraction for someone outside your committed relationship then you can try to surrender this attraction and desire to divine, by saying a prayer similar to “O, Lord, I surrender this energy of attraction to you, please clear it.”
This prayer might clear this energy of attraction and you may feel relieved.
If this attraction comes again then you can repeat the same prayer each time.
You can also learn advanced techniques in our inner work program that help you channel your energy.
But in case the attraction is becoming unbearable then its up to you to decide how to proceed next.
Is it ok to have sex with twin flame?
So lets come to the most asked question that is it ok if you get physical with your twin flame?
Once again, The answer is not a simple yes or no. It depends from case to case.
If you or your twin flame have active physical partners then its not a very good idea to get physically involved with your twin flame as it will result in exchange of energy and it will also hurt feelings of all people involved.
Its better to sort your partner commitment with the help of inner work first.
If both you and your twin flame are not in active physical relation with any partners then it is an ideal situation.
Still its better to do inner work to clear energy of all past lovers from both of you, across lifetimes.
Last but not the least, If you had already been physically involved with your twin flame or the desire to get physically close to your twin flame is unbearable, then all we can say is that its better to not take any guilt, and instead its time to start doing inner work to sort out your relationship commitments with any existing partners.
Whatever may be the case, Inner work is still necessary to sort everything out for highest good of all.
Summary
So, in short, having multiple partners is not a very optimal way energetically, but if you already are having multiple partners then its time to get started on the path of inner work to get more clarity for your ongoing life.
References: Sripada Srivallabha Charitamrutam
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What are inner work components? | 100% Tested
What are inner work components?
Is meditation known as inner work, or is there more to it? Let’s talk more about this in and try to understand what are inner work components.
By the end of this post, you will know all the major tools that help in speeding up the union process of twin flames.
Tinku & Tina
Let’s take the example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this.
If you want to know more about this couple then you can see the video series below.
Reiki healing attunement
If you have seen our last few posts then you already know a lot about Tinku and Tina.
Tinku was totally unaware of spirituality, while Tina had few experiences with Yoga, Past life Regression, healing, Mantra chanting and meditation.
Tina was suffering due to her past experiences in this life and due to ancestral karma and she wanted to learn higher spiritual sciences. Tinku knew a spiritual master who can attune Tina to these spiritual sciences.
So both Tinku & Tina went to meet this Spiritual master.
By divine grace, some confusion happened and the master thought that Tinku and Tina have come to learn Reiki healing.
And So the master initiated both of them into Reiki healing.
This was the first of the inner work components.
Past Life Regression
Tinku was new to energy healing and through Reiki and he was able to help Tina by sending her this healing.
At first, Tinku felt that he can solve all problems of Tina by sending her healing, but soon he realized that only sending her healing is not solving all issues.
There were patterns from past births of Tina that need to be healed as well.
So he consulted his spiritual master again and it came up that Tinku can learn Past Life Regression, which will enable him to heal Tina more deeply by healing hurtful patterns and relationships from past births.
This was the second of the inner work components.
Note: We are not saying that inner work components like Reiki or any energy healing are not useful. They are useful, but they have their own limits and they have to be supplemented with other healing methods.
Also, note that harmony between twin flames is only possible when all major karma from past births is healed as well.
All people in your present life who are hurting you were also somehow related to your previous births.
All these relations need to be neutralized in order to get into harmony with your twin flame.
Higher Meditative practices
By using past life regression sessions, Tinku was able to heal many patterns and behaviours of Tina.
He was healing others, but his own spiritual progress was not happening.
Tina was also not able to follow all guidance that she was receiving from regression sessions, because this guidance required Tina to take some decisions which were only possible when she reaches a higher spiritual state.
As all of this was going on, stress increased for Tinku and Tina due to their existing partners and they both had to separate.
Tinku was shocked that despite all his effort, he could not stay in touch with Tina.
Tinku asked his master the following question-
Tinku: “Master, why do I have to face separation from Tina?”
Master: “Tinku, the karmic baggage of Tina is very heavy.
You have to raise your level of spiritual progress so that you can also get Tina out of her karmic entanglements with her current partner and life situations.”
Tinku: “Master, is it possible that I can make spiritual progress while staying in touch with Tina?”
Master: “Tinku, yes it’s possible, but then your progress will be slow.
If you stay in touch with her then due to repeated happening stressful events, it will take you around 10 years to achieve the same results, which you could otherwise achieve in 2 years by staying at a distance from her.
Plus continuous stress will deteriorate her well-being as stress is not good for her mental health.
It is time for Tapa for you.”
Tinku was able to understand the situation that he is not abandoning Tina, but he is just staying at a distance from her so that he can raise his spiritual level and help her energetically.
And to handle his own emotional state, Tinku got initiated into higher meditative practices by his spiritual master.
It is said that a soul takes 10,000 years to attain Krishna Consciousness, but by using these higher meditative practices in a systematic and disciplined way, a soul can attain the same results very fast, and sometimes in just one lifetime.
This was the third and major one of the inner work components.
Energy Clearing Techniques
Higher meditative practices were changing his consciousness at a very fast speed.
And with divine grace, he also discovered a few tools that helped in connecting with the soul aspect of Tina and to clear her energy as well.
These tools are known as energy-clearing tools.
With higher meditative practices, Tinku came to realize that he too have a lot of ancestral karmic baggage to release.
These energy-clearing tools helped him to clear this baggage that was coming to the surface as a result of following higher meditative practices.
It became like a perfect combination.
The practice of Higher kriyas helped him get karmic baggage to the surface and energy-clearing tools cleared that baggage in a similar way like we clear dirt from the surface of our floor by wiping it with a broom.
With this discovery, he went ahead and experimented with lots of energy-clearing tools and understood their usage of them.
It helped in healing certain wounds magically in an instant, and it accelerated his spiritual progress at a much faster pace.
In addition, these energy-clearing tools also helped him to clear his baggage of Tina and also Trigger her awakening, even without getting in contact with her.
This was the fourth of the inner work components.
Diplomacy by Life Coaching
Tinku was progressing spiritually due to higher meditative practices.
Tina and his family members were not able to follow the same meditative practices as their time had not come yet to learn these tools.
As Tinku was rising in consciousness, his next challenge was to learn to handle people who are not on his same level of understanding.
So his master taught him the art of Life Coaching.
With Life Coaching, Tinku was able to guide a person through their current life situations without even advising or suggesting, or without even getting affected by the energy of others.
Shielding yourself from the energy of others is very important, as otherwise we get entangled in their karma, which ultimately delays our own karma clearing and thus delays harmony with our twin flame.
Tinku understood that when he will meet Tina after this separation period is over, then it will take some time for Tina to rise to the same level of spiritual progress as Tinku.
He knew that, Tina will think of him as the same old Tinku, but in reality, Tinku had changed very much due to his inner work.
So to handle Tina and other people around him in a tactful manner, Tinku equipped himself with the art of life coaching.
This was the final inner work component.
Summary
Tinku learned inner work components like Reiki Healing, Past Life Regression, Higher meditative practices & Life coaching and he was finally able to get in contact with Tina by practicing these tools for around a couple of years.
Note here that the inner work he did was specific to the twin flame journey.
There were many other tools that Tinku kept on learning even after their reunion, because learning never stops.
Even Tina started to follow the Inner work routine taught by Tinku and with the help of higher meditative practices and other tools, she was able to raise higher in her understanding and thus finally she was able to get out of her attachments.
What is Twin Flame inner work?
As for tooth problems, you go to a Dentist & for skin problems, you go to a skin specialist, similarly for a twin flame journey, it’s better to do inner work that is specifically designed for a twin flame journey.
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What to do if my twin flame is married? – 100% Authentic Story
What to do if my twin flame is married?
Many twin flames who approach us have same question that What to do if my twin flame is married?
This is because they have met their counterpart in this life when either one of them is already married or both of them are already married to other partners.
Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand this third party situation.
If you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series below.
Twin Flame Couple – 100% Authentic Story – TWIN FLAMES COACH
Tinku & Tina (note that real names of this twin flame couple have been replaced here for their privacy) are a real twin flame couple, who have achieved
When twin flames meet?
Tinku was around 35 and was well settled both financially, emotionally and family wise, but still he used to feel a kind of emptiness in his life.
He used to feel that he needs a spiritual friend who can help him in growing.
Tina was around 40. She had seen some broken relationships in the form of abandonment, betrayal and other kind of trauma.
Both of them had previous partners and also had kids with these partners.
Note that even before Tinku and Tina had met each other, both of them had started to feel that their partners are drifting away emotionally from them and it created an emotional vacuum for both Tinku and Tina.
So when Tinku and Tina met in this life time, they immediately felt at home.
Tinku and Tina started to grow closer due to the irresistible pull between them plus it was also filling the emotional vacuum that has been created by the distancing of their partners.
Initially it looked like a nice friendship and as time passed, they became more and more closer to each other.
Both of them started to loose interest in their current partners, and due to this they also started to feel guilty as they felt that they are cheating with their partners.
Why twin flames face separation?
Tinku and Tina had a strong bond due to which their existing partners started to feel insecure.
So these partners started to oppose the relation between Tinku & Tina.
As this opposition increased, it became more stressful for Tinku & Tina and everyone else involved in this situation.
Tinku and Tina were not ready to leave each other, but by each passing day, the stress was increasing.
Inner guilt and also opposition from others, plus society conditioning was creating more and more stress & restlessness.
And so, one day when stress crossed tolerable limits, they were forced to get separate from each other.
It was a situation of helplessness.
When you remember that “my twin flame is married”, you my face this helplessness.
Why one Twin Flame have to do all work?
In the last few days before getting separated, a higher master soul appeared during a regression session of Tina.
Tinku asked this question to master soul that Why Tinku and Tina had met so late in life and how this relationship will survive the opposition of society?
To this, Master soul replied that “You will find a Way Tinku and Things will be sorted.”.
Universe was giving signs to Tinku that his relation with Tina is special.
So once Tinku and Tina got separated, Tinku started to search for answers.
Fortunately, he had opportunity to come in contact with a spiritual master, and with his guidance, Tinku accepted and embraced this separation and started on the path of inner work.
Twin flame was a totally new concept for Tinku.
But with guidance from his Spiritual Master and Universe, he understood that for now the inner work is to be only done by him, until he is able to trigger the awakening of Tina through Inner work and energy work.
Tinku understood that Tina is acting under the effect of her ancestral karma and society conditioning and he can clear these karmas and conditioning, just by working on himself.
He understood that with his inner work, Tina will follow him shortly.
Note here that even if you think “Oh! my twin flame is married”, still one person from a twin flame pair can do inner work and help their twin flame to awaken.
Can I Forget My Twin Flame?
Tinku asked him self that can he forget Tina?
He knew that he can’t forget Tina, so instead of waiting, its better to continue on the path of inner work to overcome the pain and confusion that has been triggered by this situation.
He understood that it is just a test, a preparation phase for a cosmic marriage with his twin flame and inner work will heal this pain and will give him peace and clarity and he can manifest harmony with Tina.
He understood that with inner work, every thing is possible even if he was constantly thinking about question that “my twin flame is married”.
So its better to focus on his inner work.
How do you know if someone is your twin flame or soulmate?
During separation, Tinku also faced this confusion that whether Tina is his Twin Flame or not.
Although he was seeing most of the signs that were described as Twin Flame Signs like special connection, having same values, connection at all levels, time stopped when near twin flame, seeing her name everywhere, etc.
As discussed in this video, he was also getting guidance from master spirits to find a way and sort out everything,
Still he was confused as he had never experienced such phenomena before in his life and a thought that was bothering him was that “my twin flame is married”.
His master guided him that only way to get confirmation about this connection is to keep on doing inner work.
It is said that If you let your upset mind settle, then your course will also become clear.
How to Not Hurt My Partner for Twin Flame?
Tinku also had doubts that whether he is doing right with his current partner?
So he asked this question to his spiritual Master:
Tinku: “Master, is it right to seek my twin flame, while I already have a partner and my twin flame is married?”
Master: “Tinku, whether you seeks freedom from all this confusion by doing inner work or whether you seek your Twin flame?”
Tinku: “Master, my first priority is to get clarity and to get out of all this confusions.
I will do inner work to establish my self in state of being Yogasth.
Among my Twin flame and my partner, whoever is going to follow the journey of inner work to reach a state of being Yogasth, will stay with me.”
Master: “Tinku, keep on moving ahead on the path of inner work and keep this in mind that things will turn out for the highest good of all, which includes you, your partner, your kids and the partner and kids of your Twin Flame.”
Understanding Twin Flame Union
If you are separated from our twin flame, then first priority during separation is to get back into contact with them even if this thought is there in your mind that “my twin flame is married”.
For Tinku and Tina, union did not mean marriage.
Union only meant that they are able to talk or interact with each other openly without any stress or fears and no one has objection to it.
It also means that Tinku was not targeting to leave his partner or kids for twin flame.
And know this that Tinku did lot of inner work and finally got clarity and further got into harmony with his twin flame in couple of years.
His consciousness expanded with his inner work and it effected positively everyone including his Twin flame and his current partner.
Tinku’s relation with his current partner changed to be like friends, where they give respect and freedom to each other to live as they please to.
Tinku’s partner moved ahead in her journey to unite with her Twin flame and Tinku is helping her in getting ahead in this journey.
Tina’s partner also changed completely and he moved out of her life to pursue his soul mission and to clear other pending karmas.
Tina is helping him clear these karmas by providing him guidance, assistance and healing.
And now Tinku and Tina can both meet openly without any fears or stress and they are also guiding other twin flame couples to move ahead in their journey to harmony.
What is Twin Flame inner work?
There are many types of inner work, but if you are targeting twin flame journey, then your inner work should be specific to this journey.
Its good if you are already doing any kind of inner work.
But if you want to accelerate your journey of harmony with your twin flame, then you can see details of our online twin flame inner work program, which is specific to twin flame journey.
As for tooth problem, you go to a Dentist & for skin problem, you go to a skin specialist, similarly for twin flame journey, its better to do a inner work that is specifically designed for twin flame journey.
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How law of reverse effect works in love? – 100% Accurate
Why should we understand Law of Reverse effect?
A natural law of reverse effect exists in the energetic universe.
The law of reverse effect is some hard energy to change. It’s as automatic as gravity.
Understanding how reverse effect works in our psyche can help us understand our own issues that are really getting in the way of achieving our goal of reuniting with our twin flame.
In general, the law of reverse effect also leads to all our negative interactions with others.
Why its hard to let go twin flame?
1 Let’s say that you want to work on yourself and not to think about your twin flame. How easy is it to follow?
For most of us, it’s only a matter of time before we give in and try to connect with them by calling or messaging them or seeing their FB or Instagram profile.
And this time we even spend more time on them than we were doing, before we decided to stay away from them.
It becomes too hard to hold out against this craving to connect with them.
2 It’s a similar scenario with trying to stop smoking. What happens when a smoker tries to quit smoking?
The struggle gets bigger; cravings become unbearable.
Addiction is strong energy in motion. Try to stop its motion and it will boomerang back at you with the full power of its forward motion and that too in reverse.
This is why it’s so hard to stop any addiction.
And know that the one human being is biggest drug to other human being.
And we are talking about your twin flame, who is the most lovable person for you in the whole world.
What is Law of Reverse effect?
Lets take example of a real twin flame couple Tinku and Tina to understand Law of Reverse effect.
IF you want to know more about this couple then you can see video series, whose link is in cards above.
Tinku and Tina had to stay away from each other due to third party situation.
Although they were physically separated and had no direct means of communication, but Tinku was still energetically connected with Tina.
He was watching her online profiles on social media, like Facebook, Instagram and was also posting some posts that were meant for Tina on his what’s app status or as Facebook, Instagram posts.
These posts were conveying a message that he still loves and cares for Tina.
His posts were creating lots of emotional turmoil in Tina as well. This is called Law of reverse effect, which means that the more Tinku was consciously trying to show his love to Tina, the more difficult it was becoming for them to reunite.
To summarize law of reverse effect briefly, it means that the harder one consciously tries to do something, the more difficult it is to succeed.
How do we get past the law of reverse effect?
So How Tinku overcame the law of reverse effect?
When all of this was going on, Tinku took a reading from Tarot card reader and he came to know that Tinku and Tina will reunite after 10 years.
This was a shock for Tinku, who was hoping to reunite in couple of months.
His spiritual master had already educated him that if Tinku is able to let go Tina in 3d Physical world and focus his energy on his inner work, then it will lead to faster reunion.
Astrology, Tarot reading and other kind of psychic readings, read our current energy and then predict one of the possible futures.
On the other hand, inner work changes our energy and thus can change our future.
With all this knowledge, Tinku’s intuition guided him to take a decision that he will not send his energy to Tina in the form of those social media posts or by any other means that will effect Tina in any way.
After this decision Tinku took another Tarot card reading in couple of days and this time Tarot card reader could not get any date for reunion.
Tinku understood from this event that by making a small change in his behavior and energy, he was able to change the outcome of tarot reading and thus he can also change his future.
So in a way, Tinku was able to understand the Law of reverse effect and was also able to get past it.
How to not think about twin flame?
We know that its not easy to stop thinking about your twin flame.
Tinku used his energy to learn inner work and spent his energy in doing his practice regularly.
Know that it takes at least 21 days to replace a habit and it takes around 3 months to imbibe new habit in your being.
So Tinku continued his practice and during that time, some “stuff” came up that pushed him towards contacting his twin flame. He moved through this resistance.
Just trying harder to avoid twin flame without inner work will not help.
Tinku stayed away from twin flame by transmuting his energy towards inner work and learning higher spiritual sciences.
There will always be resistance when you start to do something that you were not doing earlier.
However, another law of the physical universe shows us that once we get started and are in motion , then there are higher chances that we stay in that motion.
So Once Tinku put inner work his priority, the Universe helped him to stay in motion.
The real problem is when we don’t take the first step.
Remember that taking first step is like winning half of the battle.
How to handle twin flame Journey?
Step 1 : Awareness and acceptance
Awareness and acceptance are the first key.
Inner work done by Tinku and guidance from his spiritual master, gave him awareness to accept his current challenge.
Certainly, understanding the Law of reverse effect in the first place helped him to avoid struggle and frustration.
When Tinku got prepared to take on Twin Flame inner work for reunion, it was something new for him.
He accepted it with all its challenges and this acceptance made this journey much easier for him to handle.
His teacher told him that many times he will fall during healing process, but he healed it and got back up.
Expecting a trigger and handling it is easier, than facing a trigger when you are totally unprepared for it.
He took two steps forward happily by healing himself and when the one-step-back occurred in form of worse trigger, he accepted it as the way things are and kept on moving ahead.
Step 2 : Do you really want to unite with twin flame?
Another key is that Tinku made sure that he really want to unite with Tina, despite the resistance from their previous partners.
Once Tina came in his life, there was no going back.
He understood that the attachments he have with his partner, children and other family members are just an illusion, which are stopping him in moving ahead towards harmony and reunion with his twin.
His desire was very strong and this desire helped him to cut through the resistance that his attachments were creating for him.
How much desire do you feel when you think about having a great life with your twin flame?
If you don’t want to do something then you may avoid it and put it off forever.
Tinku really wanted a certain outcome and the Universe then honored his intention and supported him because universe also wanted that Tinku and all twin flames should get out of the illusion and move ahead on their Divine purpose with their twin flames.
So Making a firm decision to reunite with his twin flame, helped him to move ahead.
Just the act of choosing to have your twin flame in life will puts you in forward motion.
The stronger the decision, the more the Universe supports you and the less you will experience that backlash. Conversely, the less certain you are, the greater the resistance will be.
How inner work effect your twin flame?
Tinku and Tina, both were already suffering because of their attachments to others. Or we can also say that they were addicted to the presence of other humans in their lives.
When a smoker, chronic overeater or alcoholic finally comes to the point of certainty where he knows deep inside, irrevocably, that death will be the end product of this addiction, then he or she can change much easier.
Similarly, as Tinku stopped sending energy of desperation to Tina and instead trained and raised himself to be a Twin flame Coach, then Tina finally came to a point of certainty where she knew deep inside, irrevocably, that separation and disharmony in this relationship will be the end product of her attachment to others.
That was the moment that she decided to change.
When she took such a deep decision that it affected her soul, she invoked a state of grace.
A higher law took over and suddenly she was able to walk away from a life of attachments and then she never looked back.
Many of us need the help of a Higher Power to do this.
For a select few, it can happen from the realization and resulting decision alone.
For less extreme cases like Tinku, his planning to do inner work in a systematic way, like we teach to our students, and then sticking to that inner work, was able to get him through the backlash of resistance easily.
The slow, steady, persistent approach of a strong intention helped hold Tinku on course and moved him through the resistance much better, instead of the scenario where he was trying to force into reunion.
And his non awakened counterpart Tina was also awakened by the grace from Higher powers when Tinku reached a certain state in his spiritual growth.
What is meaning of let go?
Tinku’s life was also getting disturbed when struggling with separation and was sending his energy to Tina. He was not able to let go Tina.
His spiritual master recommended to let go Tina for now and wait patiently.
Tinku asked that is it alright to let go and not doing anything for Tina.
To this, his master replied that practicing patience is also a spiritual practice.
And masters did not recommend to do nothing, instead he recommended Tinku to keep on doing inner work and find the right way to unite with Tina.
When Tinku had let go Tina, he automatically moved out of resistance and into the flow.
As Tinku’s peace was restored by staying away from Tina, he was able to concentrate more on his inner work and staying in higher vibration.
The more he stayed in higher vibration, the more faster he progressed on his inner work journey by learning and practicing new tools, and finally he was able to reduce the reunion time as predicted by Tarot card reading from 10 years to 2 years.
So, Last, but not least, knowing when to let go and when to hang on is a very valuable key.
Trying to Rigidly control is never the answer.
Letting go is not giving up or not doing anything or just sitting idle.
Letting go is an art, and a spiritual skill.
You just have to be smarter than the law of reverse effect.
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References: https://www.themindfulword.org/2013/law-of-reverse-effect/
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