why i have to do all inner work for my twin flame?

In this post, we will answer this popular question that discusses Should I tell my twin flame how I feel? Or how can I raise the subject of Twin Flames with my Unawakened Twin (who doesn’t know what Twin Flames are)?

Should I tell my twin flame how I feel?

Many twins ask me this question Should I tell my twin flame how I feel?

So, Now you want to tell your twin flame about this relationship, about this concept that you two are twins.

Let’s imagine a situation where you meet them or call them and tell them

“Dear Rakesh, We are twin flames, which means we are one soul in two bodies. God made us together and we separated eons ago. I am awakened and you have to awaken. So start your inner work so that we can unite.”

As Rakesh is unawakened, he might think that this is a dialog or scene from some movie.

No doubt, he might be feeling a strong connection.

As he is unawakened so he might not be able to understand the “one soul in two bodies” concept.

This is happening because this connection is not to understand, it is to be experienced.

And he can only fully experience or feel it when he is awakened.

And in previous videos, we discussed that your twin is deliberately in an unawakened state so that you have no choice but to do your inner work and thus help them in awakening.

Are you Awakened?

Rakesh might also think that you are telling him that you are awakened, but there are not showing any signs of awakening.

Because you have the shame of past experiences,

the guilt of certain decisions or actions,

the grief of experiences you went through like being mistreated,

fear of losing,

desires of playing home-home,

angry that your phone broke,

pride of having social status,

nonacceptance – unable to accept things as it is,

unable to have unconditional love for all,

unable to feel joy or peace within yourself i.e. not at joy or peace when you are alone.

Is this called awakening that you are desperate for Rakesh?

He might have heard that Awakening means being very near to god, like being established in Krishna consciousness, i.e one who is above all these low-vibration emotions, and then he might think that there are no signs of Krishna consciousness in you.

Instead, it feels like a desperate call from you to your twin that please awaken and make me happy as I am not capable of feeling happiness or love within myself.

Do you think your twin will feel attracted to you when you are going through all these low-vibration emotions?

Your Twin Agrees

What would happen if he agrees that you two are twin flames?

Would you start ‘playing the house’ with your twin flame?

Now, will you two leave your families and stay together?

Or will he start doing inner work because you told him to do so?

Why would you do your inner work if your twin accepts this?

Radha Krishna

There is an understanding that Radha had to come to the human plane by forgetting everything and had to learn some lessons.

Lord Krishna, who knew everything about his journey on earth, helped Radha to navigate through her lessons and karma on the human plane.

Similarly, Being established in Krishna consciousness means that you know everything about karma, Maya, birth and death, twin flames, and other spiritual truths, and you help your twin in navigating their lessons and karma in their life with other people who might be their spouse, family members or someone else, and you are not just dying to get married or get united with your twin.

Why he doesn’t understand this?

Remember that although your Twin Flame might be completely unaware of your connection on an earthly ego level, their soul is in full understanding and is seeking you at every opportunity.

On the spiritual planes, you are closer than you might realize, and you are always in contact somehow.

Your Twin is completely aware of your connection on a spiritual level, but often in the “still asleep” this knowledge is buried so deep under layers of earth-based conditioning and habitual beliefs that they cannot access this information on a conscious level.

E.g. In childhood, you learned the lesson that “Always speak the truth”, but with your upbringing, you learned that lying is also needed.

And now, if your twin tells you to again become the same person who does not lie, then it will be very difficult for you as that pattern is buried so deep under layers of earth-based conditioning.

Life on earth is akin to a play: the average human being is infinitely more powerful and aware of themselves than they tend to think.

They are simply stuck in the “role” they’re playing.

This means that beneath the layers of “role-playing”, your twin is fully aware of the existence of Twin Souls and their connection with you.

How to raise this subject?

How can I raise the subject of Twin Flames with my Unawakened Twin (who doesn’t know what Twin Flames are)? or how to tell my twin flame?

If you are still asking this question how to tell my twin flame?, then Here are initial ideas to raise this subject with your twin flame in a proper way.

Advising and suggesting

Understand this that until someone asks you for advice, the chances of your guidance/advice getting followed by that person is only 5%.

So if you give advice 100 times then it will get followed only 5 times, and the rest 95 times get wasted.

Also by suggesting or advising, you are sending a signal that this person is not capable of figuring things out themselves.

So you have to talk with them like a Life coach, a person who asks you questions and makes you think for yourself.

1) TRIGGER THEIR INNER KNOWING

You can trigger their inner knowing by Steering conversations onto the issues of Spirituality, Dreams, and the Unconscious.

Maybe mention a dream you’ve had about them and ask them what they think, and how they might interpret it.

Aside from actually triggering deeper seated knowing in them, this can provide you with a conversational path that eventually leads onto the subject of Soul Mates and from then on Twin flames.

Many Twin Flames dream of each other in experiences that are actual encounters on the astral and spiritual planes.

In other words, there is a high likelihood that your Twin has had dreams of you as well and by raising the subject this way, you allow them to feel safe to share.

So you can touch the subject gradually and plant seeds that will have your unawakened Twin wondering and searching themselves. This way you’ll avoid any resistance and potential disbelief.

2) SPEAK TO THEIR SOUL

you can speak to their soul by discussing matters that pertain to deeper consciousness and the nature of existence.

Ask them their opinions about space, life, and death, reincarnation, and love.

These are all subjects that the conscious self is not fully able to explain and most human beings will have an inner knowing of what they believe. In this way, you are encouraging them to access their soul and their intuition.

This in itself is highly beneficial in awakening them to their true selves.

Maybe ask your Twin if they believe in true love, and if they don’t, maybe ask them why. Most often this will be due to negative beliefs they have taken on in life and things they have seen around them, and asking them about this will trigger them to rethink some deep-seated assumptions.

3) HELP THEM PIECE IT TOGETHER

If you are in a romantic connection with your Twin, tell them how different your relationship is from anything else you’ve experienced. If you’re friends, do the same.

Express surprise at things you’ve experienced together that you’ve never had with anyone else.

Chances are you will have had unusual, “supernatural” aspects to your connection coming up even at the beginning of your journey.

Ask your Twin subtly how they feel, if they’ve experienced this before. Ask them what they think it means.

Later on, you can mention that you’ve heard or read about Twin Souls, explain it to them, and ask them what they think of it.

Most likely the descriptions will fit with what they’ve already experienced and been wondering about themselves.

Summary

So, to summarize, you can raise this subject and stir some knowing in them, but understand this that there is no magic that will happen and they will remember everything in a day.

If you are watching this video then it means that you are moving on the path to awakening first and thus it’s you who have to do inner work first.

Then see how things start to fall into place.

With Inner work, you will find a way, things will be sorted.

( Reference Blog – TwinFlame1111, Author: Cassady Cayne)

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