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Why does everyone hate me?

In this post, we will answer your question Why does everyone hate me, or what is the role of Past haters in Twin Flame Journey, and the reason why they cause distance between you and your twin flame?

Get a free tool to clear their energy by the end of this post.

What are past lovers?

In one of our previous videos, we talked about past lovers.

All those people with whom we had intense relations in this life or in any of our previous lifetimes can be known as past love relations or past Lovers.

To know more about past lovers, see the post below

What are Past haters?

Now let us understand What are Past haters?

If we had a negative relationship with someone in this lifetime or any of our previous lifetimes, then we can call these people past haters.

Some of these past haters are those people whom we don’t even know in this lifetime, but these people are negatively attached to us, even without us knowing about it.

Here are a few cases of past haters:

  • First, is where you know that a person does not like you. Here you may or may not know the reason why a particular person doesn’t like you.
  • Second is where you don’t know that there is a person who doesn’t like you. Such a person could be living near you or could be living across the planet.
  • Third is where you don’t like a person. You may know the reason for not liking that person or you may not know the reason for your dislike, but you still feel repulsed by their presence or by thinking about them.

Are past haters close relatives?

We can have a negative experience even with our loved ones too.

So in this case we can say that a certain person is both our past lover and past hater if we had both positive and negative experiences with them.

Such a person can come in any relationship with us i.e. Parent, Sibling, Spouse, Child, friend, or any other possible relation.

Let’s understand this with a few cases.

A woman loved a man and hated her boss. Her boss killed the lover of this woman and also forced her to get married to him. In a regression session of this woman, it was found that in one of her past life, she was a man herself and her boss from her current life was a woman.

In that life she as a man forced her boss who was a women at that time, to get married to her. The women who was forced in that life was now taking a revenge from her in this life.

Although her boss is currently her spouse, but he is also a past hater.

Many such other cases have come in front of you where a past hater can come in close relation to us and then he/she takes her revenge.

So in short, we want to say that past haters can be any one. 

Past haters Across Lifetimes

Now, Let us consider our previous lifetimes.

In a few regression sessions, we came to know that some souls had up to 500 births.

So Suppose that you had about 500 births and in each birth there were on average 10 major unpleasant events with some different people.

So in total, you had about pending 5000 energetic connections that have not been healed or released yet.

If we take into account all other emotions that are triggered by people in us like hatred, hostility, anger, contempt, fear, guilt, sadness, shame, jealousy, envy, or any other minor clashes, then there can be hundreds or thousands of such events in each life time, which will total up to 5 million or more pending energetic connections.

These cords are energetic, so they dont end with death of our physical body and thus they are carried on with us in every birth.

So we are trying to say that those people, towards whom you feel repulsed in this lifetime, may have been involved with you in one way or another in your previous lifetimes.

How to recognize past life haters?

So How can we Recognize a Past hater?

If a person does not like you or you does not like them for no know reason, then this person belong to category of past hater i.e. you had a negative experience with them which is still not healed and is thus unresolved. 

Whenever they will come into your life, you will feel a sense of repulsion or some sort of disgust toward them.

You will feel like you have some unknown uneasiness with them i.e. you may not like looking at them or your body react strangely in their presence.

You feel like you should run away from them or they should not come in front of you.

You can have any sort of unpleasant feelings due to them.

But as you may have some unresolved energy with them, so resolve that energy. To resolve that energy you may move into a relationship with them. This relation can be of colleague or neighbor or shopkeeper or a random person or may be a close relation like a life partner.

So, Any person to whom you are feeling any kind of repulsion can be known as a past hater.

These are the people from whom we get repulsed automatically. Their presence around us gets our attention in an alarming way.

Why do past haters appear in your life?

Let’s talk about Why Past haters appear in Present Life?

There can be multiple reasons.

1 You might not have been able to forgive someone in this or any previous lifetime for the wrong behavior they did to you OR

2 Someone not has been able to forgive you in this or any previous lifetime for any such behavior that they felt was wrong

These unresolved emotions or unforgiveness become a soul contract between your soul and the other person’s soul and these soul contracts have to be completed by both of you.

So when they come in your contact then you can resolve the pending soul contracts.

How energetic match attracts?

Also note that these people are those, whose energies are a match to your energy.

Due to this energetic match, you attract some people in your life and not all people who are living around you.

For Eg:- Let’s say that there are Lakhs of people in your city.

This doesn’t mean that all of them will come into your life.

Maybe you get connected to only 100 or 400 or 1000 of these people.

These are the ones with whom you had a pending soul contract, which resulted in an energetic connection between you and them.

Now in this present lifetime, all these people will come one by one.

Once you finish your lessons with one of them then another one will come.

When you have finished lessons with them then the next one will come and so on.

With this speed, If you finish fifty to hundred past haters relations in this lifetime and then next past haters will meet you in next lifetime, so that you can finish your pending cords and learn lessons with them.

How past haters are important?

So What is the significance of past haters in Twin Flame Journey?

When your Twin Flame comes into your life and after the initial bubble love phase beings the separation phase or as we call it the preparation phase.

To move further into Union with Harmony, it is necessary to clear all the past hater’s energetic connections.

i.e. if you have pending contracts with any of the past haters, then they need to be cleared.

Similar is the case for your Twin. He/she must be having past haters too.

Till the time the energy of past haters is intermingled with your or your twin’s energy, you and your Twin cannot be in a harmonious union, as there is outside energy involved.

This outside energy can also be referred to as a third-party situation as sometimes a past hater can come into your or your twin flame’s life in the form of a love relationship so that you or your twin flame allow that person to come close.

Once they come close you can not shake them away until you clear your soul contract with them. 

You or your twin might be either physically, mentally, or emotionally dependent on these people and so it becomes even more difficult to leave them.

Why there are other people between twin flame?

So, Why a “Third Party” is involved between you and your twin?

If your twin is with some partner or you are with some partner, which is popularly known as “third party” then it means that

there is some pending soul contracts that needs to be cleared by you or your twin with this third party.

You can also clear your twin’s past haters if their soul is ready to do so.

When this pending energetic connection is cleared completely, then this “third party” situation will also resolve for the highest good of all.

How to clear past haters?

Now there are two ways to deal with these past haters who appear from time to time in your or your twin’s life.

A long way is that they come and stay in your life for some time and when all soul contracts associated with them are cleared, then you get free from them.

A shorter way is that you can clear their energy from you.

What happens if we clear past hater?

So let’s say you clear a few Past hater connections today.

Clearing past hater connections don’t mean that all these people will leave you or your twin flame, instantly.

What will happen now is that the equation of your relation with them will start to change.

It’s like, now your relation with these past haters will become neutral, and the same will happen with the relationships of your Twin with his past haters.

This doesn’t mean you did healing today and everything will change today.

The level of healing depends on your spiritual growth.

If you are on beginning level then only those past haters who match your current energy frequency till today, will get cleared.

How does the Inner Work Program Help?

We teach some kriyas to our students in Inner Work Program.

By practicing these, your spiritual and energetic system will grow and open up, and thus deeper past haters will come to the surface i.e. new people will start to appear in your life as you are growing spiritually.

E.g. Some old person might appear or someone totally new person might appear in your life, whom you can not ignore.

Now you have a choice whether you clear this connection energetically or you drag your connection with them.

If you clear these past haters as soon as they appear then you move ahead closer to union with your twin.

If you choose to drag with any of these past haters then it will delay your harmony & union with your twin flame.

How to clear past haters?

How to clear this energy of past haters?

As said earlier, We teach some kriyas to our students in Inner Work Program.

By practicing these, your spiritual and energetic system grows and opens up and thus deeper past haters start to come to the surface.

In addition to these kriyas, we teach some higher energy-clearing tools.

These tools help to clear the energy of past haters for both you and your twin.

Please note that a lot of practice with these kriyas is needed before these higher energy-clearing tools can be taught to a student.

In the twin flame journey, it is very important to clear past haters’ energy.

If you want to learn these kriyas and higher energy-clearing techniques then you can join our Inner Work Program.

Free past haters clearing

If you are unable to join our inner work program for any reason at this time then you can still clear some of these connections.

You can use the free healing session that we created to clear the surface-level energy of past haters.

A link to that healing session can be found by subscribing to our email list.

Whenever some repulsive person appears in your life or you feel that some one is being repulsed by you then you can use this session to clear them.

As a general rule, Keep on using this session periodically, may be once a month or whenever you feel like it.


So if we Summarize this video then,

Past haters are all those souls with whom we had pending energetic connection in this life or in some previous lifetime.

These are the people to grab our attention automatically and we feel a kind of uneasiness around them.

They can come in close relations like family members or they can be at some distance from you.

If these people are in your life then there are two ways to deal with them.

One is that you can go through hit and trail process to learn your lessons with them, which is quite a long process.

The second is to go through any kind of inner work program that can help you to open up energetically and clear the energy of past haters from you and your twin.

For deeper and faster clearing, you can join our inner work program which involves practicing some higher kriyas to widely open your energetic system, so that deep past haters come on the surface faster and thus you can clear them with higher energy clearing techniques for both you and your twin.

As harmonious union is not possible till the energies of these past haters are involved between you and your twin, so clearing these energies becomes very important.

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